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    xoxox Posts: 5, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 21, 2010, 12:31 PM
    How do I get louder in school,have the courage to shout.
    Ok, So I'm not the loudest in school,in fact I'm nearly the quietest. And since I'm the quietest, all the louder ones tend to be cheeky to me since they know I won't say anything back,they know I'll just sit there and take it... I've told the teacher and my mum but they tell me just to ignore them,but they don't know how bad it is... I hold in all my anger and it feels really bad :( How can I get the courage to be louder and talk back to people in school...
    Im not like this outside school at all! When I'm outside school I'm usually really loud! And is someone called me a name I would tell them to shut up etc... I've tried acting in school like I act outside school,but I can't because they might think I'm weird the way I act then make even more fun of me... theres only a few people in my school that know the way I act outside school because their my besties (their like me... quiet in school) but when they tell people the way I act they don't believe them because their quiet too... help please :S thanks x
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    Oct 24, 2010, 03:35 PM
    I believe that you should stop thinking so much about how other people see you and act like yourself. People that like you will stick around and people that don't won't, but at least you don't have to feel repressed. BE YOURSELF! And have fun while you are at it!

    Good Luck,

    Javi
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    Oct 24, 2010, 03:37 PM

    I will go with mom, ignore them ( what you should be doing outside of school also) yelling or getting loud is not really the way to deal with others
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    Oct 24, 2010, 04:05 PM

    I'd laugh at their ignorance. It would make them think twice. They clearly don't know you that well either. Make it seem like THEY are the ones that are the joke by not taking it but by making it OBVIOUS that it's bouncing off you. I do it and people just stop and think, and then they don't feel so smart. What kind of stuff do they say? I can help you let if roll off your back.

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