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    StumpedGirl Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 12, 2012, 02:29 PM
    How do I gently tell a guy I'm not interested?
    There is a boy in two of my classes who obviously likes me. He always touches my hair when he walks by,he is always showing off when I'm around ,and he tried to massage my shoulders once! I do not plan on dating till I'm 16 (currently younger), I have religious reasons, I hate the way he over acts and shows off when I'm around, and he's not my type.
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    May 31, 2012, 12:46 PM
    You should take him aside and just say straight forward that he is not your type... If he asks why just say you see you two just being friends! :) if he doesn't take the hint have one of your frineds say the same thing... if he doesn't take that hint I think you might have some bigger problems on your hands... but usually guys will take the hint! :)

    Hope I helped:)
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    Jun 1, 2012, 04:27 AM
    I would never assume, only count it as an option of many. Just ignore him, if he asks you out, or drops big hints that he likes [byou[/b] then tell him you're not interested. No need to embarrass him and yourself by taking him aside and telling him you're not interested if he's not even interested in you. Best thing you can do is ignore him.
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    Jun 1, 2012, 03:45 PM
    Just me honest. If you don't like the way this guy is acting them tell him that. If he doesn't see that then try to ignore him.
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    Jun 1, 2012, 05:43 PM
    For starters he should not be touching you at all, trying to massage your shoulders is a bit too far into your personal space, where, I assume you haven't invited him to be.
    So start with that, let him know that you are uncomfortable with the touching and please don't do it again.
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