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LoveBuggie · Dec 3, 2009, 05:01 PM

Well OK I am 15 and I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 months now which seems like a year. But guys have been sending me texts, guys I use to talk to before I fell in love with my boyfriend and my boyfriend thinks I want to get back with my ex's and I keep telling him that no, I love him only him always and forever but he doesn't believe me. He says I need to prove to him that I love him and I have 3 weeks before something bad happends. How can I prove to my boyfriend that I only love him?

Fr_Chuck · Dec 3, 2009, 05:30 PM

Then he is a fool, there is no way to "prove" it, he either has to trust you and have faith in you or he will not.

And if he is stupid enough to say you have 3 weeks, then you dump him now, since he is a jerk and then make him come begging back to you if he wants you.

jmjoseph · Dec 3, 2009, 05:54 PM

Three weeks until what happens?

Nothing, that's what.

Don't let this guy pressure you into anything.

He's a jerk for treating you this way.

Gemini54 · Dec 3, 2009, 06:07 PM

He's trying to control you. This is not a person you should be thinking of 'loving forever'.

Never be in a relationship with ANYONE that gives you ultimatums or suggests that if you don't do what they want there will be 'bad' consequences.

If he doesn't trust you - that's HIS issue, not yours.

Don't make his jealousy your problem. It's his.

emilyanne5g · Dec 3, 2009, 09:38 PM

OK hunny, I've been out of high school for three years, and though not very long, I've found that... (yeah, sorry its true, mom was right) these high school boys will not matter in 5 years. So he wants proof, why should you give it to him, he doesn't deserve proof if he is asking for it in the first place. Stand tall and have respect for yourself. You are strong and independent, and you don't need to prove yourself to anyone EVER! It only matters what you think of yourself. If he needs proof, he is immature and wants the control over all your emotions. Don't ever think that is love, it is not! If you have to Prove your love then he is not worth your time!! Ive been there! Stand tall, the drama will be over soon!

amicon · Dec 4, 2009, 03:23 AM

Something bad happens? Dump him n o w-he' s a control freak who makes threats.

talaniman · Dec 4, 2009, 09:59 AM

His actions prove to you he is a jealous jerk, and controlling. Dump him now!

The last thing you need is an insecure fool for a boyfriend. He will make a fool of you like he is.