I am 19 years old and my girlfriend is 17. We have been seeing each other for about five months now and I feel as though I would like to start having sex with her but I don't know if she wants to. I am not in our relationship just for sex, I love the girl and I am not in any real rush, its just maybe I would like to take our relationship further to the next level. If she does not want to start having sex then fine because I don't mind its just maybe I want to have sex more than her. I just want to have that connection with her and I want to have a special relationship with her.