How can I get a girlfriend?

Chicken4762 · Sep 11, 2013, 06:35 PM

I like a girl who just came to my school she doesn't know I exist. Well that was until I accidentally farted out loud in front of my class and it was embarrassing.

Someone help. Oh by the way I'm like Raj from BBT, I can't speak to women and no, I don't drink I'm 13.

J_9 · Sep 11, 2013, 06:37 PM

Is this the same girl?

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating/get-her-notice-me-754832.html

odinn7 · Sep 11, 2013, 06:54 PM

I think at age 13 you are worrying too much about nothing. Don't worry about getting a girlfriend... it will happen in time.

talaniman · Sep 11, 2013, 08:05 PM

Learn to talk to the girls around you, that's what gets you positive notice, talking positive and friendly. You have to start small and through practice work your way up. May take a while though, but don't be discouraged if you aren't an instant success.

If this is the same girl that always hangs around her friend, be friendly to them both. If you cannot make female friends how will you ever expect to someday have a girl friend?

Chicken4762 · Sep 13, 2013, 06:24 PM

Originally Posted by talaniman

Learn to talk to the girls around you, that's what gets you positive notice, talking positive and friendly. You have to start small and thru practice work your way up. May take a while though, but don't be discouraged if you aren't an instant success.

If this is the same girl that always hangs around her friend, be friendly to them both. If you cannot make female friends how will you ever expect to someday have a girl friend?

Its not the same girl

Originally Posted by J_9

Is this the same girl?

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...me-754832.html

No

Chicken4762 · Nov 8, 2013, 08:48 PM

I asked her out she said yes

odinn7 · Nov 9, 2013, 09:20 AM

Originally Posted by Chicken4762

I asked her out she said yes

So where are you taking her? Olive Garden and then a night out on the town?

talaniman · Nov 9, 2013, 03:23 PM

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...ng-774460.html

Same girl?

Chicken4762 · Nov 22, 2013, 10:37 AM

Originally Posted by odinn7

So where are you taking her? Olive Garden and then a night out on the town?

She dumped me 3 weeks ago

talaniman · Nov 22, 2013, 10:55 AM

Hope it was fun while it lasted, but to keep it real, there will be others you fancy.

odinn7 · Nov 22, 2013, 11:42 AM

Originally Posted by Chicken4762

She dumped me 3 weeks ago

Don't worry about it. At your age, there is still plenty of time to find someone that matters...don't rush into things right now. Just take time to be a kid and live a little.

Steph_tommo · Nov 26, 2013, 08:30 PM

You're like Raj haha I like that. I'm a 13 year old girl and... Sometimes we can be a little typical with boys.

We can act (very well) that we don't like you even though we probably love you.

First thing you want to do is let loose and when you have a chance, try to make her laugh. You probably shouldn't just walk right up to her and say something funny. Like if you're sitting beside her, start a conversation and show her how funny you are. I know it's hard but you have to take things slow. Start to talk with her friends. Become her friend! Get their numbers and get close enough so that if she starts liking you and she tells her friends, they will definitely start dropping hints. After a while you should ask her who she likes. If she says she won't tell you, it's probably you. If he says that build up the courage to ask her out later on.

I have a problem with speaking to boys but I guess you need to just push yourself to get to where you want to be...