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    #1

    Dec 5, 2010, 09:23 PM
    Help me, Please!!
    Hey people I need serious help here.Ever since I can remember I've had a crush on this really funny and beautiful girl.Last year I finally got the guts to talk to her and we become bff's.We'd hang out for hours after school talking and laughing
    .Finally,I decided I would ask her out on the last day of school:but she didn't show up.Naturally, I was disappointed,but I thought "I'll just ask her out next year".The new school year starts and she still isn't there.Then I find out she moved away.How could I not have known? I felt so stupid I didn't even bother trying to contact her.Then I realized feeling sorry for myself wasn't going to help me so I decided to contact her. I hadn't logged in to Facebook for a long time so I logged in yesterday and checked her status:she's dating somebody.What should I do?By the way, were in gr.7
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    #2

    Dec 5, 2010, 09:35 PM

    What to do? Nothing. She is physically and emotionally out of your life. Work hard in school, and be friends with all the guys and gals there. You're too young for a "relationship." Do things with large and small groups of kids. Join clubs and organizations at school.
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    Dec 5, 2010, 09:45 PM
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    What if I was able to go to her school,then what?
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    Dec 5, 2010, 09:48 PM

    She is dating someone. Hands off!
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    Dec 5, 2010, 10:07 PM
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    Isn't there some other way?
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    Dec 5, 2010, 10:12 PM

    Nope. Even if she dumped the guy she's with now, you would be only a rebound and would get dumped once she had worked through her pain and agony. Plus, you are both VERY young, so anything you have now will not last.

    If you want to be an honorable person and not a sleazy, creepy guy, hands off.
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    Dec 5, 2010, 10:22 PM
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    I'm NEVER GOING TO GIVE UP ON HER!! And I don't see how liking someone makes you a sleazy creepy guy
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    #8

    Dec 5, 2010, 10:24 PM

    Making a move on her while she's in a relationship makes you sleazy and creepy.
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    Dec 6, 2010, 04:16 PM
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    Oh... fine you win I'll just never date anybody for the rest of my life
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    #10

    Dec 6, 2010, 04:20 PM

    Just stay away from females who are already in relationships. Then you'll be wonderful and very desirable.

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