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    hamidamohammad Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 4, 2007, 05:08 PM
    I have a cousin who hates me for something I did what should I do?
    We were at my grandma's and she(Sally) was with my other cousin(cindy) and family friend (holly)that everyone thinks of as a bad girl when really she is really nice. Well I was jumping on the trampoline and they were in the club house thing and I asked them what they were doing and they said prank calling people with holly's phone. Cindy needed to go to the bathroom so as she was walking there I told her to stop because if our parents found out they would get into deep trouble. SHe said they were just playing. When she went back they continued to do it. Finally when we went I pretended to tell an older cousin but didn't they thought I did and gave me the evil eye the whole time and I was getting really sad I told them
    I didn't tell and they wouldn't believe me then I went home and I was really mad and I told my sister who told my older cousin who told her mom and the girls Cindy and Sally got in trouble now my cousin never treats me like her friend anymore and just ignores me barely talks to me and when Holly who lives in San Fran. Came and visited again she was totally hogging her and being rude to her in front of her. We went to a party and she saw her other friends and she was so close to them all I had was Cindy and Sally and they didn't really do anything with me. Please help!:(
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    Jun 4, 2007, 07:36 PM
    This is a silly reason to be mad at someone. Your cousin is being immature! Let her be mad at you all she wants you dind't do anything wrong.

    Half of the pleasure for people that hold grudges is watching the other person suffer and be upset... if you act like you don't care if she ignores you she will be your friend again and let things go, even if it takes a while

    Don't dwell on something and let it make you upset and sad when you have nothing to be upset about.

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