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    I_love_yoo Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 23, 2012, 05:30 PM
    I have a boyfriend, but like this guy! What should I do?
    Right, so I got a boyfriend, and I love him a lot :/ I've known him for 3 years but started dating about a month ago. And I really like this other guy. He's really nice. But I don't know what to do! Please help me x.x

    Ermm... So Well I've known my best friend for six months I know it sounds weird.. But we're really close.
    And she's got a boyfriend and she loves him so much! And he doesn't like her he likes me.
    But I'm afraid that if he asks me out or I ask him out and we both say yes, that she would be really upset and hate me.
    I'm really worried But I can't let one guy come between me and my best friend I need advice I can't get him out of my mind! He's already said he loves me and he finds his girlfriend irritating and clingy HELP ME! {:
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    Feb 23, 2012, 06:13 PM
    If you want to be dating someone exclusively, then you have to make a decision. If you are thinking that you would like to date >Name removed<, then you shouldn't be exclusive with your boyfriend.

    Since you have only been dating for a month, maybe discuss the option of not being exclusive and dating others as well. Some people are OK with that, others are not.

    It sounds as though you are not really ready to be in an exclusive boyfriend/girlfriend relationship just yet and might be better off just being single and able to date different people for awhile.
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    Feb 25, 2012, 05:28 PM
    Stick with your boyfriend and don't even be tempted by anyone that will go behind his girlfriends, your friends, back to complain about her and shoot sweet nothings in your ear.

    Yes, just in case you don't know that's cheating on his part, AND yours, it is. So tell your fella the truth, and tell your best friend that her boy friend is hitting on you. Or be caught in the mess that cheating, and being dishonest with boyfriends, and friends brings.
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    Feb 27, 2012, 09:52 AM
    Ive Come of him, I can't do that to my best friend. I don't know what I was thinking! Thankyoufor your help you made me think differently xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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    Apr 21, 2012, 08:51 PM
    If your best friend is a true friedn then she will support you and even thought she might be hurt she will get ver it and be happy for you
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