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    smile22 Posts: 9, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 21, 2007, 09:38 PM
    This guy
    I really like this boy and we have been going out for a while.. Everything was going excellent until he told my best friend that he wanted to get "closer" with me. Im going on a dte with him this Saturday and I know were going to his house ,I don't know if I'm ready to go further or not but I know I'm going to have to make that descssion soon though, what should I do?
    Oh and plus Im only fourteen
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    soccerstarxx Posts: 34, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 21, 2007, 09:46 PM
    We are about the same age, if I were you I wouldn't do anything I will regret or feel uncomfortable doing. I personally think your to young. If you are uncertain about it then your not ready, don't let him preasure you into doing something you don't want to. Just let him know your not ready to go further.
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    victoria_mitchell Posts: 242, Reputation: 32
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    Oct 22, 2007, 12:26 PM
    By saying no you put yourself in a win win situation. If you say no then you will never regret doing something you wish you hadn't done and you will be testing this boy to see if he really likes you respects you and cares about you, if he does then he'll have no problem with waiting.

    Or you could just "go with the flow" and allow whatever happens to happen. In which case you will most likely regret it feel bad about youyself and you'll never know if he's just using you.

    The choice seems clear to me, but it's your choice to make... Good Luck

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