Look OK my so called "best friend" has been an utter toad to my whole group mostly me we took her in because I felt sorry that she had no friends so I sat with her in one of my class. It started great I let her sit with us for the whole day. It truned out that that all the group really liked her. She was are friend for the rest of the year but once she meet this guy calle dcamron she stared to be a toad to & saying that I like him & want have sex with him but I told her that I liked him as a friend then after all that she then starts it back up I was walking to class she was way infornt then camron turned around and asked me if I wanted to bash him.then she had the never to tell to leave her & camron alone and to stop flirting with him I want to yell at her and beat her what should I do?? :confused: :mad:

Hello GothicGal,

It looks to me as if your 'friend' has the problem, not you.

From what you said you held out the hand of friendship to her and introduced her to you friends who also took a liking to her and she simply turned her back on you all when she found her new boyfriend.

Not knowing what 'bash' means I am assuming it is something sexual. If this is the case I cannot see the relationship between this girl and her boyfriend lasting long, especially if he is chasing after someone else.

If this is the case and their relationship ends, I am wondering how she will feel then and if she will expect to carry on where she left off with you and your friends.

I am also wondering what your other friends think of the situation and about her now.

To be honest I would be a little wary of this young lady as she gives me the impression that she could try to cause a lot of trouble between you, your friends and indeed anyone.

She appears to be acting very immaturely and if she were treating me in the same way, I am afraid I could never class her as my 'best' friend, indeed I doubt I would want her as a friend at all.

From what you have told us, it is no fault of yours or your friends, it is hers. She must feel very insecure both in herself and in her relationship with her boyfriend if she feels the need to wrongly accuse someone of flirting with him.

My advice is to try to distance yourself from her.

Poseidon

Bash means beat up like get into a fight I don't to get into a fight with her but she keeps say that she will hit me if I go near her or camron she will fight me
Ps thanks for that

Hi again GothicGirl,

Thanks for explaining the meaning of 'bash' to me. I feel a bit silly now as that is what the when used by the British.


I am wondering why Camron turned back and asked you if you wanted to hit him. I assume he and the girl were walking together and she must have said something to make him come back to you and ask if you wanted to hit him.

If so, it just goes to reinforce my feeling that this girl is feeling very insecure for some reason.

Poseidon