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    Sep 29, 2007, 06:50 AM
    I can't get over the guy
    About three months ago my boyfriend and I broke up. I was devastated. I cried a lot and never wanted to get out of bed. I couldn't look at him at all. The worst part was he seemed just fine with it all. As time went on we re-became friends. We talked and texted each other all the time. This is going to sound soooo stupid but I actually started to think that we might get back together. The next day at school (yes I am a minor but this is still serious) we were going on our retreat. We had been driving for about two hours on the bus when I looked back and saw him and my ex-best friend making out. The whole in my chest ripped open again and now I can't stop thinking about him. I started to cry a lot again and I just want this whole thing to go away.
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    Sep 29, 2007, 06:53 AM
    Who broke up with who and Why?
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    Sep 29, 2007, 06:56 AM
    Well, he had been a jerk to all my friends and he told me that I was not giving him enough so I guess it was kind of a mutual thing but I reall don't know all I know is that he told everyone that he dumped me
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    Sep 29, 2007, 06:59 AM
    IM a guy, so I can maybe help with this.. Guys need a certain amount of attention, if you even said you weren't giving him what he needed.. than that's the problem. And he probably seen that your friend or so was willing too, that's why he maybe moved in on her. Ask yourself this.. DO YOU STILL WANT TO BE WITH HIM? Answer that for me.
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    Sep 29, 2007, 07:20 AM
    Well we were really close. We just didn't make out in public. He was very touchy feely and my friend is kind of a slut. Maybe I just wasn't good ebough for him
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    Sep 29, 2007, 07:21 AM
    Didn't answer me the question I asked... DO you still want to be with him??
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    Sep 29, 2007, 07:25 AM
    Yes. :( I know I shouldn't but I do
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    Sep 29, 2007, 07:28 AM
    Ok then... NOW we getting somewhere.. now all you have to do is WIN him back.. NEXT time you see him, Don't even wait.. if you have to see him today DO IT. Tell him what you just told me.. tell him you want him back.. if you are willing to change for him, then LET him know. Tell him you will show more attention, tell him you were WRONG, I know.. makes no sense but DO IT.. guys LOVE IT when a girl can tell them they were wrong about something.. if you do this, it will show him YOU really care about him and he WILL see it.

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