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rachel00 · Aug 10, 2009, 05:18 PM

I'm 15 and I can't get over him he's too nice. He said he loves me but the only reason he broke up with me is because things going on in his life... we still talk and get along as friends.. I want to be more than friends but I don't want to say anything to him in case he gets freaked out and blanks me. I really really like him still, he flirts with me loads and when we go out its like we are going out again but then I get in and its just back to squre one... should I tell him how I feel and hope for the best or just keep things as they are at the moment?:confused::(

ChihuahuaMomma · Aug 11, 2009, 01:38 AM

Sometimes it takes longer than 3 months. Each person and relationship is different. How long were the two of you together?

I hate to break it to you, but being around him all the time is only going to make this ten times more difficult. You have no time to heal.

This is what I would do: Take a break from him, give yourself time to heal ((if you need to)). If he comes to you to ask why, tell him. His reaction will be the answer to whether to continue the No Contact.

kittykat0177 · Aug 11, 2009, 11:11 AM

I was going threw the same thing once. I'm 15 to and I got cheated on by my first boyfriend ever. I know sux right but I realllyyyy liked him. I couldn't get over him for months but I finally told myself if its not meant to be its not meant to be and you should talk to him from what uv said it sounds like he still likes you a lot. Don't come on to strong just tell him your hear for him if he needs to talk or go see a movie together and give little hints. I hope this helps! GOOD LUCK

MissRissa · Aug 11, 2009, 04:56 PM

If you really want to recover, you should not keep things the way and you should not tell him how you feel and hope for the best. I'm sorry honey, but neither of those things will work if you want to get over him. In fact what you really should do is stop talking to him, stop hanging out with him until you get over these feelings.

talaniman · Aug 12, 2009, 05:57 PM

Why should he have an exclusive commitment to you, when you let him hang out, and do the same thing as b/f, g/f, any way.

He broke up ( a line, no less), so now leave him alone. He will either chase you, or ignore you, but he can't just get do what he wants when he wants, and you can't get over him by still hanging with him.

Stand up for yourself, and get what you want, or at least get over him, and see other options, and opportunities, to be happy, on your own terms, and not his.

HelpinHere · Aug 12, 2009, 06:11 PM

You don't have to get over him, if you are still friends.

Just, make sure that you don't push it. He knows you still like him. You didn't break up with him, he broke up with you.

If the reason he said is true, and you be a good friend (and only a friend) and wait, then he may come back to you whenever the "things goin on in his life" are done.

Good Luck