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    scenekid Posts: 10, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 24, 2010, 12:40 PM
    My boy friend is really shy like me and people are presuring us to kiss
    Me and my boyfriend are really shy and every one keeps pressuring us to kiss and hold hands and we have only gone out for a week and a half what should I do. We are in middle school and its my friends and his friends doing the pressure should we just kiss because I just want to wait until the right time to do it what's your advice because we really do like eatchother
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    Wondergirl Posts: 39,354, Reputation: 5431
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    Nov 24, 2010, 12:43 PM

    You will find out as you grow up that some people you consider friends will always be pushing you to do something that makes you slightly, or even majorly, uncomfortable. Now, what do you do about that? Do you give your power and control away to those supposed friends, and maybe end up feeling bad or even messing up your life somehow -- or do you keep your power?

    I hope you always decide to keep your power and do what is comfortable and right.
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    SeirraA Posts: 13, Reputation: 6
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    Nov 25, 2010, 08:39 AM
    Friends do that all the time. But don't do it until it feels right and comfortable, not compulsory.
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    ScottGem Posts: 64,966, Reputation: 6056
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    Dec 12, 2010, 04:05 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by SeirraA View Post
    Friends do that all the time.
    Real friends DO NOT do that.

    You don't say how old you are, but Middle School could be 13 or younger. This is one of the reasons, children in that age group should NOT be dating one on one. Do your parents know you have a "boyfriend"? Do they approve?
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    scenekid Posts: 10, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 18, 2010, 09:12 AM
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    My parents died in a car accident 3yrs ago my older sisster takes care of me and she doesn't care what I do or when I do it
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    ScottGem Posts: 64,966, Reputation: 6056
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    Dec 18, 2010, 06:39 PM

    First, don't use the comments for follow-up, use the answer options instead.

    Second, I'm sorry your sister cares so little about you. But you didn't answer my questions about your age.
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    Fr_Chuck Posts: 81,301, Reputation: 7692

    Dec 18, 2010, 08:09 PM

    One should never do something they do not feel good about, merely because others think you should

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