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    Sep 28, 2010, 12:43 PM
    My best friend's crush likes me. What should I do?
    I just found out my best mate's crush likes me. We're really close and she knows something's up but I can't tell her. It's spoiling our friendship because she knows I'm lying to her about something. I don't think I can keep it secret forever, I'll let it slip at a sleepover or something. Could I tell her? Oh by the way I have no feelings for him at all.
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    Sep 28, 2010, 02:25 PM

    As long as you don't have feelings for him you should just tell him you are not interested and say anything "nicely" to get him to back away. Maybe you should tell your bestie what he thinks in case he makes something up like you like him!
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    Sep 28, 2010, 02:39 PM

    Tell him to back off. If you have no feeling for him there is nothing to tell.
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    Oct 9, 2010, 03:13 PM
    Approach the guy and simply tell him you don't have similar feelings for him. Be honest. Being honest is by far the most important thing to do, especially in friendships.
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    Oct 10, 2010, 06:29 AM
    First . Think about do you like or you don't . Then once you figured that put you should really tell your friendd about what he hass been doingg. Then she can handle it from there , I promise one you tell your friend your going to feel so much better .
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    Oct 10, 2010, 06:32 AM

    Tell the guy, explain you have no feelings for him.

    Boys will come and go by the dozens over the school years, good and best friends should be forever
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