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ashh123 · Dec 25, 2009, 11:30 PM

Okay so I've been knowing my best friend since the beginig of the school year. She just moved from another state and we live close to each other( like 3 streets) so we have been best friends ever since we figured that out.and I've been knowing her boyfriend since the beginning of last year we used to like each other last year but never went outthen this year I was ganna ask him if he wanted to hang out. She beat me too it so they have been going out ever since. They have done every thing together even sex. And after exams we all were ganna go to the movies to see avatar and I had invited a guy to come with me but he bailed so it was just me my best friends and her boy. The seats at the movies were awsome oyu could put the arm rests up so we all cuddle together. Then she fell asleep for a while (the movie was 2 and a half hours long) and she felt me up and down and played with me. The me and her boyfriend have been talking ever since (this was like 3 days ago) and we are ganna hang out this weekend and maybe do a little something something help I really like him but what about my best friend help. He sad he doesn't really care because she's being weird about everything or something help please.

Alty · Dec 25, 2009, 11:57 PM

So you're willing to stab your "bff" in the back for a guy that you "like"?

Wow! I don't think you have the right to call yourself her friend. A friend doesn't do something like this. A friend would tell this loser (and yes, he's a loser) to go to hell.

Not only did you let him feel you up and play with you at the movies, you're planning on more.

Here's what you do. Tell your best friends that you really don't give a crap about her, that you want her boyfriend (the cheater) and even though he'll probably cheat on you too and you won't last, you don't care if you lose her friendship over it, because you want what you want and nothing, even morals or common decency, should get in the way of that.

Sound like a plan?

ashh123 · Dec 26, 2009, 01:54 AM

Wow that's harsh but true oh and by the way she is cheating on him too with this other guy so yea

confuzed1 · Dec 26, 2009, 09:19 AM

Wow, that's a tough situation. It seems like they both have problem with commitment and will most likely not stay true in other relationships in their life as well. In a relationship there is no point of going out with someone if you are doing things with other people such as what you said.

Alty · Dec 26, 2009, 08:20 PM

Originally Posted by ashh123

wow thats harsh but true oh and btw she is cheating on him too with this other guy so yea

If she's cheating too then they deserve each other.

Just because your friends don't have morals or ethics doesn't meant that you have to join them.

Yes, I was harsh, because there wasn't a nice way to tell you the truth.

There are names for people like your friend and her boyfriend, I can't print any of them out here, the filter will delete them.

So, do you want to be classy or trashy? The choice is yours. If you go with this guy then you're just letting him use you. Personally, I would have more respect for myself then to be someone's sloppy seconds.