She's my best friend, & I love her so much. But, my friend recently told me that she was tlking about me behind my back. So I have a Facebook, and so does she. & on a picture if mine she told my friend " I don't like when she gets a lot of likes on her picture. Because she's like my competition. & the only reason I like her pictures is so she likes mine, its not even that pretty I don't get why everyone liked it" no big deal, just she's said other things and it pisses me off that she talks about me. & last night we went to a football game and her and my other friend that's more outgoing totally ditched us, like we were following them because were all friends and they legit ran away from us. Like I love her and I don't want to loose her as a friend, but all my friends follow her so much and I don't get why, & I don't know what to do. Who says about their best friend "shes like my competetion, I only like her pics just so she likes mine"? Helpp

Is this the same best friend in your other posts?

No, I've known this girl forever

Instead of taking someone's word for what was or was not said, why don't you have a talk with her. Find out what is going on. Or just leave her alone. Sounds like you have issues with her as well.

I agree with Homegirl, talk to her. If she has a problem with you, break off the friendship, no one needs a friend who talks behind their back and whatnot. Do you have any problems with her? By the way you talk, it seems like it.

I feel like I pick the wrong kinds of friends,she's desperate to be popular and I couldn't care less. Popularity won't mean anything at all in a few years, and she's always whining about it. & no I don't have a problem with her, I love her, just she's changed so much from what she used to be. She used to be this sweet girl I could trust with anything at all, now I can't tell her a small little secret. I've talked to her about it before, and I always end up being friends with her again. She bothers me so much sometimes, but at the same time I love her too much to let her go.

(please excust the spelling mistakes & errors I was in a rush)

Then if she is your friend and you love her, accept her for who she is and ignore it when she gets on your nerves.
The power is yours.

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Keep a healthy distance between friends like this, as there is no telling what is going through there heads as you all have gotten older, and changed. Some will be for the better, some not so much.

Friends can be harsh. My best friend and I aren't even... friends, even though we basically grew up together. There are times in your life where some friendships need to come to an end. The situation with my friend was similar to your own. She was talking behind my back. There's not much you can do. Don't stoop down to her level and start talking behind your back. If she sees you as your competition and not a friend, she's just jealous. Maybe she wants to be more like you.

Thanks everybody:) & yea I know, I can't wait until college so no one will care who's popular and who's not. Im really starting to see right through people