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    Dec 29, 2008, 09:53 AM
    Strange happenings
    hi, i need some help on spirits.
    My grandmother's house is haunted. We feel bad vibes, and we have expierenced , strange happenings. The spirit has never been violent. But we feel as though we're being watched. We need to know how to find out more. Maybe investigating into my grans house history ? But we're only young. So we can't do anything to over the top ! we really need help. and we need it a.s.a.p .
    so please help us .
    .x
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    Dec 29, 2008, 09:58 AM

    How old are you? How long has this been going on? Sounds like an angry spirit and it may be attached to the home or something in the home. You can search at the deputies office, library and deed searches for the history of the home. How old is the home? Has the house been blessed by a priest? You said that there are some strange happenings but I wanted to know if or has there been any physical movement of objects? And Have you heard any strange sounds? I guess I need a bit more information to know what it is your dealing with.
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    Dec 29, 2008, 10:06 AM
    Hi , my fellow couisins and I are between the ages of 12-15 .
    The happenings include, my grandmothers name being screamed, guitar strings playing , white shadows being captured in pictures, stairs creeking at night, strange fallings.
    The house hasn't been blessed, but I don't know if my gran would want her home to be blessed. Please reply again . With any further information. Thank you for the reply but we really need help. Everyone thinks we're daft but we swear we're telling the truth. My cousi caught a strange happening on her phone and we know something is not right on this house ! I think my gran knows herself, but is just to scared to admit it .
    Thank you . Please reply
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    Dec 30, 2008, 11:40 AM

    Well being so young I can't advise you to clear the house yourself... I am not sure what to tell you. If you sense something is there maybe try to communicate with it by talking and saying for it to leave.
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    Dec 30, 2008, 03:25 PM

    I know better than to just say, "Don't be frightened." Easy to say, but when you feel scared, sometimes you can't make yourself stop being scared just because you want to. Still, that's the most important first step.

    Some people (like me) believe that spirits are all around us. In fact, one of the basic ideas I use in shaman work is that "everything is alive, and everything is dreaming." Which means that even chairs and tables and the computer keyboard I'm typing on right now each have their own spirit, after a fashion.

    Most spirits are not really powerful, or really bad. Having a spirit living around your grandmother's house is a lot like having a squirrel living around her house. Maybe that helps it be less scary, if you think, "It's just like a squirrel." In many ways it is. Squirrels might live near us, and sometimes they knock something over or we hear them scratching on the roof, or they steal the bread from the picnic. And they can even hurt you, if you corner them or frighten them so badly they feel they have to try to bite to get away. A lot of spirits are like that. Basically harmless, so long as you give them space and don't act aggressive towards them. And most spirits are a lot weaker and smaller than squirrels.

    So remind yourself that it's no worse than if your grandmother had a squirrel living in the tree in her front yard. Then it doesn't seem so scary. One simple thing you could do would be to scatter rose petals in a circle around the house. If it seems appropriate, ask your grandmother to join you in doing this. If you don't think she'd be into it, you could do it secretly. Normally, it's a little bit rude to do magical work around someone else's house without telling them. But I gather from your question that you either live with your grandmother or you are often over at her house, and you don't want the spirit bothering you. You could also leave the spirit some food or a piece of jewelry or something you think it might like. You could hang the jewelry in a tree, for instance.

    Whatever you do, the most important thing is to be clear why you are doing it, and what you want to accomplish. Magicians call this having a clear "intention" for the work you are doing. When you scatter the rose petals or leave the food or whatever, say to yourself, and say to the spirit, "We are being kind to you to help you be at peace, so that you can find the perfect place you need to be. And if the perfect place is here, we want to help you be happy here and only give blessings to our grandmother and to us."

    I hope this helps. I also asked my power animals, two Fox spirits that help me, to go to you and see if there is anything they can do to help. Don't worry, they are very wise and good. They are also very tricksy, so you probably won't even notice if they drop by.

    If you still need help, you can send me a message and I will be happy to talk with you further.

    Blessings,

    Alder
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    Dec 31, 2008, 03:49 PM

    Thanks a lot. But what if I feel that this spirit is not at peace ? I feel that the spirit needs help. Anymore answers ? Please keep them coming x
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    Jan 1, 2009, 01:54 PM

    we really aprieciate all your answers ; but if anyone knows where i can go or what i can do to help this spirit and do a little more research, then please. keep them coming.x
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    Jan 1, 2009, 06:01 PM

    We said to communicate with it, see what happens... remember that it is possible there isn't a spirit but rather a projection of your energy... so, communicate with it; see what happens. You can also do the rose pedals as Alder suggested. You may also want your house blessed. To search the residence history I indicated some places to start your research. This is where you can start... if more is needed then you can clear your house by other means I can mention after you have done some homework.
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    Jan 2, 2009, 12:20 PM

    Thank you for allt he answers. Again if there's any thing you can think of for our age just say it!
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    Jan 4, 2009, 06:38 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by supernx5 View Post
    thanks alot. But what if I feel that this spirit is not at peace ? I feel that the spirit needs help.? Anymore answers ? please keep them coming x
    As I said, it doesn't have to be anything big or fancy. Just let it know that you want to help.

    But you have to be clear about that. You wouldn't want to just walk up to a strange person if you didn't know who they were or what they were doing, and say, "I want to help you." What if it turned out the person was robbing a bank? You wouldn't want to help them do that, right?

    So you want to help the spirit, but only to help the spirit find peace in a way that is good for it and good for you and your grandmother. You can make that clear to the spirit. So if you leave a small object, like a necklace you own or something like that, for the spirit, tell it that you are giving it that thing because you want it to know that if it needs help finding peace and harmony in a way that will bring good to everyone involved, you will help it. You know how sometimes when people give each other presents they say, "It's the thought that counts"? That's true. What you give doesn't have to be big or expensive. Even if its just a picture made by gluing macaroni on cardboard, if you made it with love and gave it with love, then that's what's important. That's true for people, and it's really true for spirits. Spirits are energy, and your thoughts are energy. The kindness of a child is like gold and jewels and an Italian sports car in the spirit world! Your caring can be more powerful magic than anything an experienced wizard or shaman could do. It's what you want to accomplish that matters. How you do it is up to you. Use your imagination and come up with something that is fun and feels right to you.
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    Jan 5, 2009, 08:24 PM

    This is what I see, I think you are almost answering the question yourself. You say it seems bad vibrations. You don't seem to think it's a ghost you might know.

    It does seem to be trying to get attention. I think most ghosts have been involved in the house. Have you asked your grandmother about the house or you didn't want to? You might get some surprising answers. Neighbors might know something even w/o digging it up.

    If the ghost is troubled as you also seem to be saying it is you can ask it to go to the light. Say it can't stay here anymore.

    The ghost or spirit is hanging on there. Try slamming the doors and making noise to get rid of it. The Chinese have something like that to get rid of evil spirits look into something like that. Try having people over.

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