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Ash_16_2007 · Jun 3, 2007, 07:08 PM

Ok... I`m 16 years old and I am 5 and a half months pregnant... the father of my baby is being an... he has cheated on my about 5 times in 2 years and when I broke up with him he drove three hours just to come crying back to me and I took him back.. this time when he did it I told him that I wanted him to change and this was his last time doing this because I was finished and I can't get hurt anymore... Well anyway It`s Sunday and I haven`t heard from him in 3 days and everyone is telling me that he is out driving around with one of my best friends... I live 3 hours away from him, pregnant with his kid, and tired of this , what should I do?:mad:

jillianleab · Jun 3, 2007, 08:18 PM

Sounds like he is a jerk and not ready to be a parent and commit to the responsibilities necessary. Take care of yourself and your baby and forget about him. You can't make him be a stand-up guy, and from the sounds of it, even if you were able to force him to stick around, he wouldn't be healthy for you.

As hard and scary as it might be to face your future as a single mom, think of the damage this jerk could do and the heartache he could cause. It sounds like he's not worth it.

MummaCrash · Jun 4, 2007, 03:25 AM

I'm so sorry you are going through this.

But most of all, the important thing here is you're about to bring another person into this world.

Better yourself by putting your baby and you first. If you are worried about the hardship, ask for help, you can look online for support if you can't get it in real life.
There are a lot of parenting forums, some that cater specifically for young Mum's/single Mums.

Your age won't define your phillosophies on life.

Good luck!

victoria_mitchell · Jun 4, 2007, 10:59 AM

LEAVE HIM! Think about it... Do you really want YOUR CHILD to be raised by someone that acts like that?

I would HOPE that you would leave him for your own sake, but if you can't than leave him for that baby's sake...

purple-hearts · Jun 5, 2007, 03:56 AM

wasnt this guy a jerk before you got pregnant? he has cheated on you in the last two years, and now hes with a friend of yours, he isnt ready to be a father.

supermankwt · Jun 6, 2007, 01:41 AM

Dear,
You had to think practically, before "it" happen. But,
Unfortunately, the disaster in your life happened.

Now, what you have to do is,

1 ) try to make understand him about your situation and if he can understand, you continue with him.

2) now, if you really feel that he is a cheater, and you really wish to give him a punishment, go and complaint about him. So, you can save your other friends and other girls from his trap.

3) if you are not ready to do any of the above, you think it is your real life and what happened to you is your fate. And try to think about the rest life . Find another man who can understand you. And liv with him.

All decision is up to you. Don't do anything according to others instruction. You do what you feel good. Don't give space to others to think by sitting in side your brain. - may god bless you for a better life