[Gina888]

My husband thinks his sexual abilities are quite normal... I, on the other hand, know that they are not. In my experience, most men are able to engage in a reasonable amount of foreplay and intercourse, then ejaculate and soon after roll over and fall asleep.
My husband sometimes has an erection for hours and hours. He can easily have sex for 2-3 hours, ejaculating several times, always maintaining an impressive erection, and stopping only to have a drink or a cigarette, and then getting right back to business. I have tried to tell him that most men aren't capable of this type of sex, but he can't imagine that guys don't have the same endurance that he has. Is this virility normal?

[JenRN]

To be blatantly honest, no... for the most part, it's not completely normal. However, not to say that he's abnormal. Honey... enjoy it.

Ok, seriously, some men (they are far and few in between) can do this. But on a consistent basis, not usually. Every time you are intimate, he is this way? You are one lucky gal.

I keep straying from the point. It is not really normal to always have this type of experience with intimacy. It can happen from time to time, but with most men, it's a one time thing, especially when they've been married a while.

If this is a change from the norm, then I wouldn't quite know what to think, except you personally have a natural erotic thing for him. So consider it a complement. But do explain to him, that it is okay to have sex just one time once and a while. He doesn't have to be amazing all the time :) Sometimes they just need to hear it.

I can truly understand where your coming from, and if this was happening day in, day out boy, you would be getting a heck of a workout. I hope that you can show him this and he understands, or tell him this.

Good luck and I hope this helps.

[Alec7]

Fair answer... I too thought it was normal... and then learned from experience that's it is rare. It is both a blessing and a curse!

My first clue was that I can have multiple orgasms... within minutes or over a couple of hours... with the same erection. Multile orgasms for males on the same erection are rare

Sometimes it just fades away "normally" after sex although on other "rare" occasions it just gets harder on an orgasm... and can almost get painful/tight... and has to be used carefully.

Learn to enjoy!!

Handle carefully.