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alyssa071 · May 31, 2007, 12:11 AM

So I've been talking to this guy; we really connected on a lot of different levels; good conversations; had a lot in common we even started making thots about travelling and things. He said he was really into me. We flirted over the phone like crazy and he wanted to meet up.. he gave me the idea that we were going out.. we were supposd to keep it on the down low... we went on a date.. we had fun, talked etc.. But he didn't kiss me!. this was funny because the past 2 guyz I went for were just phyically attracted to me and all they wanted was SEX so I backed out of both; but with him I have a connection but he's distancing himself frm me now... later that night he tells me I MISUNDERSTOOD us to be going out!? So we had ended up arguing and he stopped talking to me, he couldn't back his own statement!

Anyway I've just been reading his blogs lately and in one of his old blogs hez mentioned how all girls he meets are either 'fake' or 'desperate'. I honestly don't think I did anything to give him the vibe of me falling into either of the two categories; I don't know how to approach him now; hez not going to call me because he thinks I'm really mad at him (I think hez scared of me.. heh); but I don't want him thinking I'm desperate if I talk to him now aftr that.. He already has this notion that most single girls he meets are just desperate.. :confused:

fix-what-you-broke · May 31, 2007, 04:15 AM

Yes but that's like me saying that all men are cheats... not the case right? He can have his opinion on it but it doesn't make it true.
Call him, talk to him, just say you had a great time on the date and was wondering if you could do it again sometime, if he says no then its his problem not yours.

alyssa071 · May 31, 2007, 05:11 PM

Hmm yea I'm going to wait a week and then call if he hasn't talkd to me by then... thanks hun!

Fr_Chuck · May 31, 2007, 05:18 PM

And not all internet hook ups live up to what the other thinks it would be.
He may not have felt any connection when he meet you personally, it can happen. And in such a case it would appear he was and had enough respect not to do sex withsomeone just for the sake of having sex. Which is what a lot of men on the internet do, they go out have sex and then never call.

alyssa071 · May 31, 2007, 05:51 PM

Well this wasn't an internet hook up... we met through friends before.. we always got along.. jus didn't get to know each other on a personal level because we were always around other people too... but all this happened aftr I started talking to him one-on-one.. that happened over the net... so yea it wasn't completely new either really!

Washington1 · Jun 8, 2007, 12:31 PM

Keeping it on the down low! Was this what you wanted?