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InTheArmsOfGod · May 25, 2007, 08:25 AM

I'm usually on here giving advice, but here I am needing some.

I'll make it sweet and simple. I am moving due to financial reasons and will undoubtedly improve my situation once I move to my new location. She's staying but she really has no ties to where she currently lives as she's moved from time to time and doesn't mind it.

We would only be about an hour and a half away and we both really love each other I guess. She's sad that I'm leaving and so am I, but it's a necessity that I go. Being that it's such a short distance and I will be coming and going from time to time to see her, should we still give it a shot? And will it work?

For me, she's the one right now and I don't see myself with someone else, but I know that's just love pulling the wool over my eyes. I know that after a few months of being away, I will eventually ask her to move my way, but that would mean she would have to drop everything, her work her school and her friends just to be with me. What should I do?

lmnotok · May 25, 2007, 10:18 AM

Is she willing to sacrify?

Rockabilly1955mama · May 25, 2007, 11:00 AM

Help yourself before you help others.
If she loves you, she will understand. You both just have to put your heart and effort into making the distance not a big thing until either she or you move closer to one another.

talaniman · May 26, 2007, 10:57 AM

but that would mean she would have to drop everything, her work her school and her friends just to be with me. What should I do?

This is where honest communications come in, as you need to know how she feels, and what she is willing to do. I don't think it fair for her to give up what's important to her especially school. Are you willing to wait? Talk and listen.