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    NikkiLovesYou44 Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    May 21, 2007, 10:54 AM
    Ex's and best friends?
    okay, my boyfriend and I broke it off about... 2 months ago because we never got to see each other. We were perfectly fine with it, and we would occasionally talk on the phone and stuff. Kind of like we were just friends. Yeah, there were still feelings there for him, and he had feelings for me too, but it was just because he was kind of the first person I had actually "fallin in love" with, and the same goes for him too. Well, about a week ago, he asked my best friend for her phone number. I just got really upset about it and told him that I never wanted to talk to him again, and we haven't talked since. I don't know why I got so upset with him really, because we're not dating anymore, but it just really hurt that he started going after my best friend. Is it normal to be upset about this, and was I wrong to tell him that I never want to speak to him again? Help meee :(
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    May 21, 2007, 04:00 PM
    If you're just a friend now minus any feelings for him, then why do u even bother? Honestly, EX with whom you have spent some good moments, can never be your friend. Accept this reality. Those who remain friends, I must say are very strong but majority gets negative points here especially if it's not been long enough since your break up. So give it a thought... and if you ask me, u should take this as a cue to move on as your friend is doing... look ahead and not people who were there in your past are doing... to hell with them man!
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    May 21, 2007, 04:09 PM
    You still had strong feelings and now that you know he has moved, on I hear jealousy and rejection making you so angry. Give yourself the time to heal and move forward with your life. You can't control what others do or feel.
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    May 21, 2007, 04:28 PM
    I guess he gave you a dose of reality. Learn from this - when you break up with someone don't become their friend, especially if you still have some kind of feelings for them.

    But on the other hand, what kind of guy goes after your best friend - even though you are broken up. In the end, your better off without him anyway.
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    May 21, 2007, 04:30 PM
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    I agree, very good.
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