[veon33]

I am being with her(W) for 4 and half years, we had gone through many things, we had broken up for 1 time, during the broke up, I had started a relationship with another girl (S).
When being up with S , I realised that I still love S. My relationship being with S was gone in half a year. Then, I met up with W, and successfully got back with W. Counting on the days being with , it has been 4 and half years.

Recently, I found out she likes a guy. She also already started relationship with him without telling me. They has started for almost a months something. I also found out that guy called her (lao po -wifey) in sms.
I wonder how their relationship has gone so far, she told me she doesn't love me anymore

However when I feel hurt, she also feels hurt for me, she also sms to me 'dunno why thinking of u, my heart is so painful,
In my view that, she loves me, but she likes other guy, becoz she want to find sparkling feeling which can't find on me.
But I tried my best to recall all our sweet memories, to refresh back our feeling
She still keeps contacting him daily,
I am a clingy guy, I called her once every 3 hours.
But to my problems is, I only manage to see her every fornight weekend. That guy , can accompany her daily, since they study in the same place.
I dun want to lose her, I love her, is there any way to get her back?
She is still lthinking about wther being up with me or him..
I have decided not to contact her for a moment.
Hope she can miss me...
But I am afraid that, it would let her being closer with the guy
Now she is on hoilday alone in her hometown
She just manage to sms that guy.
She also agree to have our last trip during my holiday started.
I am so confusing,
I love her
I dun want to lose her, somebody help me, summore my exam is coming soon!~~~ I can't manage to study, keep missing her

[Fr_Chuck]

Talk to her, be honest, risk getting hurt but only by putting yourself out there can you build a relationship. And I know our personal life can destroy our will to do anything, I could sit here and tell you to do your studies and don't worry, but you and I both know you can't.

But there is no way we can force anyone to do anything, so all you can do is hope and be honest.