[irie20024]

Why is my younger sister so evil

[krystal1973]

What did your sister do

[WTFO]

Ok, give us just a tiny bit more info...
Is she hiding the chocolate chip cookies... or casting spells at midnight in the forest? Or perhaps something in between?
We'd love to help, but a little more background might be helpful.

[irie20024]

Sorry if it seems I am jumping from subject to subject, I am just so stressed out and this is my first time on this web site, just looking for advice, she is just so smart mouth I have not seen her since she was 15 years old and now she is 24, she is a vegetarian, I am not, which is okay, I buy all of her food, on Saturday my daughter was cooking a sausage to make a sandwich and notice we did not have any bread left, so she came to me and said can I ask my aunt (which is my evil sister) for some of her bread, I said sure go ask here she told my daughter no she does not have that many left, I ask my daughter did you explain to her, that all of ours are gone, she said yes mom I told her, so I told my daughter to go back and tell her that I bought that bread and to give you some right now, and I will go to the store in a while and buy some more bread for her.

I have never thrown my weight around letting her know I bought this or that , but I was so angry I had to remind her, she is my sister, that is my daughter, I just feel as a kind hearted person any one would just offer someone a piece of bread especially a child, but any way for the other issues, if myself my children or my husband ask her anything about any topic she always answers sarchastically, I think she spits in my food now because we were eating dinner tonight my daughter poured juice in her cup and notice white mucous particles floating to the top of her cup I told her that looks like tissue she said no it can't be my cup was clean, and she put her hand in to feel if it was tissue and it was slime, so I put the juice bottle up to the light notice things floating around in there I poured the rest of the juice in a cup and the same thing floated to the top of the cup it was very gooey as well.

I am very fed up don't know how to get rid of her because she has no where to go I took her in she came from out of state my husband bought her ticket I am so disghusted, because whenever I try to talk to her she is such a wicked evil witch, do you have any adive? I really want to put her out she does not know anyone here can't go back home all of my family member despise her and fore warned me but I was so hurt that she was living like that no she is here my other family member were right.

[vlee]

Ok, this is ugly. First of all, let me say that buying stuff for someone and then later demanding that they have to share because you paid for it is ridiculous. That is childish. On the other hand, it sounds like your sister is selfish and inconsiderate. I assume she lives with you? So why are you buying her separate groceries? Does she work? Start charging rent and utilities. If she wants special food she can go buy it. If she doesn't like your rules or disrespects your family or home, toss her out. I know it is hard to do, but you would be putting your family through hell for what? An ingrate? You have to put your own family first. This is a grown woman. She is supposed to be able to care for herself. If she spit in food or drinks I'd kick her out immediately. There are some things you just don't tolerate from other people. That is one of them.

[AW805]

First I have to say, I don't think you should have put your daughter in the middle of it. You should talked to her about the bread situation.
You need to sit down and talk to her about how you feel and how she is treating your family. If she can't respect that or doesn't agree throw her out. You were warned from other family members about how she is so this isn't a shock. But it's not an excuse either. She's an adult and you can't enable her by allowing her to stay with you and take of advantage and continue to be disrespectful.