[shanny_2006]

I really like this guy but the thing is, is that he has a girlfriend. And I don't want to ruin the relationship with him and his girl. They have been together for about 3 years or so. This guy and I were really close friends at first but gradually we became intimate. After that he began to act different around me and I don't know why. I think it's because we were friends at first and we did something and so the whole situation became awkward. Whenever he sees me, for instance, he will completely ignore me and he will instead talk to one of my friends and pretend as if I'm not there.

I want to know if what we did, is causing him to behave that way and I want to know if he stills likes me as he used to? I want to know if I've lost a good friend.

I don't have a problem with what took place between us and I really really like him but I don't think he will want to take me seriously since he has a girlfriend. Do u think he was using me to get what he wanted? Do u think that if I tell him how I feel that he will ignore me? Let me know what you think

[saraispiel19]

Umm.. he hαs α girlfriend. Get αwαy before it gets worse, don't help the skeeze cheαt on his girl.

I wαs in this situαtion in high school (ooh highschool:) ) but yα this guy hαd α g/f αnd I hαd "feelings" for him or whαtever αnd he wαs my friend too.. but yα he told me he liked me αnd well I did too but mαn he hαd α g/f αnd I wαs like "buddy you hαve α g.f" αnd so I bαcked off.. αnd I cut him off.. I knew if I did "end up with him" he'd probαbly do the sαme.

I've been on the other side of the coin too where the girlfriend wαs my friend αnd the dirtbαg tried to hit on me (hαhα tried to plαy footsies with me-sick) but yα I told my friend whαt he did --in front of him so he couldn't deny it- αnd she dumped his αss.. so if the girl is your friend tell her -- becαuse "friends αre forever boys αre whαtever"

My best bet is : bαck off this guy is α creep αnd will probαbly do the sαme to youu.

[hidden123]

It sounds like he feels uncomfortable about what happened. If you want to keep him as a friend (and can handle it your feelings considered) - talk to him. Communication is the key.