Here and Now
Never consider endings with such bleakness, the end of one chapter predestines the beginning of another. The stage is set, the plot thickens which creates the hunger for more, the what will happen next. In relationships, you have attained what many have waited and hoped for during their lifetime... to actually connect with their Crush. There are so many people wondering what it would have been like to actually date the one they most admired, and you have had an opportunity to do so. Therefore, consider the time spent with him, as one less, what if to entertain during this lifetime. Who knows, you may part ways, but not in heart. Some actually do return to reclaim the love of their life. Some are comforted by the fact that there awaits a girl back home, which propels them to complete their studies without added distractions. There remains a world of possibilities, conjectures to entertain; however, the one sure thing... Here and Now... Live without regrets, enjoy him. If not, you will begin to pull away, shy away from him, not giving him your all, in an effort to protect your heart, while misleading him to feel or think that you are not all that interested in him. By chance if you do part ways, consider what you have discovered about yourself due to your involvement with him, embrace the enhancements your interaction with him has brought to light. With everyone we meet, we learn something more about ourselves, things that probably would have never surfaced if it had not been for that encounter. Always, in all things, embrace the fruit of the interaction, sometimes, the details are not nearly as important, as the fruit, the hindsight, the insight, the newness of life, the discovery of a part of yourself, the enhancement of a skill or trait. Therefore, with such an outlook, endings can only be viewed as preparation gained for lies ahead. This keeps your outlook positive, as well as, shut the door to bitterness, fear of giving your heart, whereby reducing the fullness of life, joy this life has to offer. When you consider that your heart will be broken, crushed... You set yourself up for a bad shake... something you would have to eventually get over, in order to move on, so cut it off at the path... enjoy the here and now... let tomorrow take care of itself... embrace the fruit... know that whenever you approach the end... it is merely time for you to begin again.
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