Well - DON'T ever talk about yourself!! Woman hate guys who are trying to convince woman to like them.
Let the woman talk!! Learn to listen. Initially woman like to talk about themselves.
You need to break out of the 'nice-guy syndrom'
You have to be funny - funny.
Go to:
www.sosuave.com
www.relationships-bog-city.com
www.lovetactics.com
www.askmen.com - dating - read Doc Love - he would call you a Wuss.
Read EVERY dating article on Askmen.
Unfortunately woman are NOT attracted to nice. They don't want a jerk, BUT they want Confidence, funny, mystery (don't talk about your self), and a man in control!! Don't smile as much. Learn to flirt - you were probably in friends mode.
Woman like a guy who will bust her chops - sometimes woman NEED to be put in their place - they need a guy who is in control - a guy who will disagree with her. Being agreeable is not attractive.
You need to create attraction. Being nice does not create attraction.