[cutie08]

I'm just not even sure what to do anymore
Right now I pretty much hate life
I'm beginning to think that I'm not even supposed to be happy
I just keep getting hurt
I feel like I'm just not worth anymore
And I feel so alone I just don't know what to do anymore
Please help me what can I do please
I don't want to feel this way anymore

[richcali]

I too have these feelings and I just remember there is always someone who is worse off than me and they can be happy so...
I am bed ridden for the last ten years due to a couple hip operations I have no wife as she left me when this first happened I am 45 years old and have to take morphine several times a day. I can't date anyone because I can't leave my bed, and I am so lonely. I was married for 16 years... but with all of this I learned there is always someone in worse shape who are making it. I take it one day at a time its all we can do... so stay strong take it day by day and remember your situation could be worse ( I think... I don't know your exact situation but generally this is true)
For me doing my family history on the computer helped me a lot I contacted family that I have never met and have kept in touch with most of them to this day.
Good luck to you

[talaniman]

Get a life that you enjoy, and stay out of relationships until you know how to make yourself happy. Work on a skill, or get training for something you might like. As you accomplish things for yourself, and make yourself happy, you can grow and learn how to have a healthy, happy life.

[startover22]

Both of these responses were wonderful. I also think if you can be as honest as you can with YOURSELF, you might be able to answer some of your own questions. It took too long for me to do this. You will come through. Let yourself live. How old are you? That could make a big difference. Girl or boy? I really want you to realize how great you are and how great you can be.

[louie1]

Hi I have just come out of a 11 year relationship and now find myself on my own every evening as I like to keep the children to their routine.

I have found that getting involved in sites like this help you to put your own problems into perspective, helping others through your own experience and reading other threads gives you some ideas,you also get to talk to some pretty amazing people.

You can contact me via msn if you wish and maybe we chat through some of issues.

Life really is what you make it and your must try to find a positive in every day and hold onto it, things will get better but you have to believe that and believe in yourself.

Positive thoughts create positive outcomes!!

[AKaeTrue]

All the answers are great.
Startover22 had a really good point, it's time to be honest with yourself so that you can start picking through your troubles, dislikes and likes.
It's probably the first step you need to take in order to get on the path to positive thinking and creating happier situations and goals for yourself.
It's time to get to know yourself a little better so that you can be the one who makes yourself happy.
It really works, you just have to be brave enough and strong enough to give it a chance.
Kae

[Geoffersonairplane]

Positive thoughts create positive outcomes!!!

I've just got to write this one down!

So it is never forgotten!

Very true!

[BLTDay]

im just not even sure what to do anymore
right now i pretty much hate life
im beginning to think that im not even supposed to be happy
i just keep getting hurt
i feel like im just not worth anymore
and i feel so alone i just dont know what to do anymore
please help me what can i do please
i dont wanna feel this way anymore

Hey Cuite,
As girls... we ALL go through this. I'm 19 and my identity my WHOLE life was wrapped in having a guy. I knew that the only way I'd be happy is if I found myself but could never get away from guys long enough to do that. Don't believe any lie... you ARE supposed to be happy... mentally, spiritually, emotionally... I finally "took a year off" from dating to get to know who I am as a person *because through the teenage years, its hard to know exactly who you are; even guys... so how can two people really be completely happy in a relationship if neither one of them REALLY knows themselves?? * It was the hardest decision I've ever made... I NEVER thought I could stay away from dating. But it was sincerely the best decision I ever made. I dedicated that time to God and I didn't even have to wait a year... God sent me the man of my dreams and we are now engaged. So, just keep your chin up. Your worth is not found in romantic relationships. Your worth is not found in physical appearance. <-- something I had to learn too. Your worth is only found in God alone. I know that sounds preachy... but you see all these people who struggle with the same thing you're dealing with. Even look at ALL the celebrities... they look everywhere but God and until they look in the one place they're not, they'll never be happy. Hope this helps. Praying for you!