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exquisite · Apr 17, 2007, 05:05 PM

Two months ago I broke with my boyfriend as he said I was just a passing phase for him and that he wasn't too sure if he might take it more seriously later... but till then he wanted to just have a kind of fling sort of thing with me, however I must say he was caring until I simply wrote to him and said I needed to move on. He never questioned me, nor did he call nothing... that made me restless and I kept urging him to meet me.After relentless efforts, he did meet up with me but we never talked about our relationship in depth and we hugged and kissed and I told him that for me to have sex with someone I need to be felt special... for that he needed to call/text me more often... he said he would mend that but told me not to text him but just email him. Ever since I have been writing mails to him, he does respond nicely but at his own leisure, texts me once a week... keeping it simple as to how I am and that he's busy stuff like that. I want to know what do you think he's trying to do here... should I be in touch with him or no... please advice

lea ann · Apr 17, 2007, 05:52 PM

Him girl move on

VADawg · Apr 17, 2007, 06:04 PM

Move on. Just cut contact all together. He's not worth your time.

kellkell · Apr 17, 2007, 06:11 PM

If you are not a priority in his life why should he be a prioity in yours? Move on...

loveandpeace · Apr 19, 2007, 08:55 AM

He sounds like an !

Lotz_of_Questions · Apr 19, 2007, 09:01 AM

Don't call. If he wants you he'll call. But men like that aren't worth your time. Forget him! Good Luck :)

Rockabilly1955mama · Apr 19, 2007, 11:22 AM

Screw him honey! He sounds like a jerk. Just let him go. It may be hard, but it will be worth it at the end. :)

talaniman · Apr 21, 2007, 08:45 AM

Whatever your hoping for he ain't it so forget the games, and get a life without him. Stop the contact.

Gem07 · Apr 21, 2007, 09:14 AM

Your boyfriend was very honest with you when he said the relationship was a "phase," "a fling," and he sees no future. Appreciate it (although it hurts) and move on.

Katy Ann · Oct 4, 2007, 11:16 AM

I am in the same situation almost exactly except for the fact that I moved on but now want him back again, what kind of advice would you give me? Whatever advice you would give me try to use it yourself. I have had the opportunity to move on a number of times and I start to get to the point where I don't care and then he calls, or texts, does that sound familiar. I truly love this guy but I know in my heart it's not worth it and if it's meant to be then it's meant to be whether it be now or later. It's easy to tell someone to move on but only you know what your heart wants. If your young play the field some, hang out with him once in a while but don't wait, if another opportunity comes along take it. That's what I'm doing. I know that I'm not ready for another relationship anytime and so that leaves me single just in case he straightens up and decides to want to be serious again but at the same time I am out dating and meeting new people and being a 21 year old. So just go and have fun and take one day at a time. I don't know exactly what he's trying to do but I would say that he's just trying to keep you on a string and he wants to make sure that your not going to stray away from him so he keeps in contact with you or he's scared, who knows what guys think, half the time some of them, not all, don't think.