[Sunshine5555]

On 9/21/15 hospital told me I was pregnant had my period sometime the beginning of aug.what day did I possibly conceive on just a estimate ' would be great and very helpful as I'm tired of thinking

[Wondergirl]

Are there two different men involved so that either could be the father?

[Sunshine5555]

No there ant I'm just trying to see how far along I am in when I conceived

Are there two different men involved so that either could be the father?

Would that put me around the 19threw the 25th or no

[J_9]

When was the first day of your last period?

[Sunshine5555]

When was the first day of your last period?

That's were I'm stuck at it was at the beginning og aug because I got home the 19th of aug then I find out I'm pregnant this month on the 21 so I wasn't on my period when I got home

No there ant I'm just trying to see how far along I am in when I conceived



Would that put me around the 19threw the 25th or no

no there ant

[J_9]

I could give you an estimate, but I need dates. Remember that conception and due dates are only an estimate based on a mathematical equation.

[Sunshine5555]

I could give you an estimate, but I need dates. Remember that conception and due dates are only an estimate based on a mathematical equation.

Omg!! lol OK let me ask you this I couldn't have gotten pregnant on the 28th or after because I'm almost 5 weeks I think I calculated that rite I don't know but yea a estimate would be great

[J_9]

It would probably be easier for you to think back to August and try to remember when you had relations with your partner.

[Sunshine5555]

It would probably be easier for you to think back to August and try to remember when you had relations with your partner.

Oh I know that part the 20th all the way to the 27th I think

[J_9]

The 28th is a possibility, but you will still have to let both men that either one of them may be the father.

[Sunshine5555]

The 28th is a possibility, but you will still have to let both men that either one of them may be the father.

Its only one man

Its only one man

Ok maybe I lied but I had sex on the 28th with a new guy but I highly doubt that I got pregnant then because I'm to far along

[J_9]

No, you aren't too far along.

And we know you lied. The only girls wondering about conception dates are those with multiple partners. The girls with only one partner want to know what their due date is, not their conception date. 😉

[Sunshine5555]

No, you aren't too far along.

And we know you lied. The only girls wondering about conception dates are those with multiple partners. The girls with only one partner want to know what their due date is, not their conception date. 😉

Ok so you think I got pregnant on the 28th

[J_9]

I have no idea if you got pregnant on that date. Your dates of encounters are so close together you will need a paternity test after the baby is born.

The mathematical equation rate I told you about has a two week window of time either way. So, you could be 5 weeks, 3 weeks, or 7 weeks. An early ultrasound can narrow it down, but not be exact.

[ScottGem]

You have an anonymous username. So we don't know you and it is unlikely anyone will connect the dots. So lying to us is counterproductive. As J_9 said the only reason someone is concerned about when they conceived is if there are multiple partners involved.

The bottom line here is that calculating conception (and due) dates is an inexact science. Any estimate of conception can be off by +/- 2-3 weeks. So, since the potential dates are so close together, you will have to wait and have paternity testing done after the child is born.

[Fr_Chuck]

There is no way to know an exact "DAY" of conception, unless you only had sex one time. Conception dates are only as good as the information you give the doctor.
Also even the best estimates can be off one week easy, and even up to a couple weeks.

So yes it could be either man.

[talaniman]

If you had sex for a week with one guy, then had sex the next day with another, then either guy could have gotten you pregnant. So which one will you have to lie to? I can only imagine the emotional and mental anguish this is causing you... not knowing what to tell either of them, or anyone else you know, because you really don't know yourself, and will not know without a test being done after the birth of the child.

What a pickle!

[smoothy]

I think you should tell both... they will be a lot less upset now knowing each might be a new dad... than they will after keeping it from them for 9 months then springing it on them.

[J_9]

Oh what a tangled web we we've when first we practice to deceive.

You owe both of them the truth as they both will have to be tested.