[Homegirl 50]

Can't you send her a message on Facebook? How did you reach her before?

[talaniman]

I don't have her number, just gave her mine. So, just wait for her to text me? And if she doesn't forget about her?

Don't obsess over this new contact. Carry on with your life, and do your thing, and have fun. You have no clue what her life is about, so don't even make it about you. It probably isn't any way. Why get stuck on someone you don't even know? You met her go meet another.

Maybe she gets back to you soon... maybe she doesn't. Regardless, give it a few days and shoot her another text... just ask how she is doing, and if she has time for a burger or something. Never wait for a stranger to get back with you though, why?

[lordstannis]

Don't obsess over this new contact. Carry on with your life, and do your thing, and have fun. You have no clue what her life is about, so don't even make it about you. It probably isn't any way. Why get stuck on someone you don't even know? You met her go meet another.

Maybe she gets back to you soon... maybe she doesn't. Regardless, give it a few days and shoot her another text... just ask how she is doing, and if she has time for a burger or something. Never wait for a stranger to get back with you though, why?

I messaged her twice on fb alread, so I think that's enough. She never gave me her number, I gave her mine and she said she'd text me. I'll just wait for her to text me. I mean I'm not stopping my life or anything, just wondering if I should contact her again sometime. I guess I'll just wait till she Friday. If she doesn't contact me I'll just forget about it.

[talaniman]

You did your part, waste no more time "waiting" on a stranger to their part.

[smoothy]

I messaged her twice on fb alread, so I think that's enough. She never gave me her number, I gave her mine and she said she'd text me. I'll just wait for her to text me. I mean I'm not stopping my life or anything, just wondering if I should contact her again sometime. I guess I'll just wait till she Friday. If she doesn't contact me I'll just forget about it.

Tells me she really wasn't all that interested... so it's a serious long-shot at best.

If she was going to call or text... she would have done it long before now. Every day past day 2 she doesn't is that much more likely she never will.

[lordstannis]

You did your part, waste no more time "waiting" on a stranger to their part.

You're right. Forget her.

Tells me she really wasn't all that interested... so it's a serious long-shot at best.

If she was going to call or text... she would have done it long before now. Every day past day 2 she doesn't is that much more likely she never will.

You're right. She was just being nice messaging me instead of outright rejecting me, which was kind of her. Time to delete her off fb! Oh well, thanks for all the advice, guys and gals!

[lordstannis]

Asked her out via fb, hit me with the "always busy". Rejection. Sigh* was really thinking she liked me.

[smoothy]

Can't say we didn't see that coming. Everything she did pointed at being cordial... but not really interested.

[lordstannis]

Can't say we didn't see that coming. Everything she did pointed at being cordial... but not really interested.

I had hope. Oh well, deleted her on fb. No need to talk to her anymore.
Like I said, out of my league.

[smoothy]

Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Not every person you ask out will accept. You take it in stride and move on.

This is why you never obsess over anyone...particularly before you even ask them out. And why people that do are responsible for their own misery.

Maybe the next one you ask will accept.