[natashap25]

Like in my head I'm pretty and I get told that too,so why is it that only ugly guys are into me?

I feel kind of sad about this

[CravenMorhead]

Everyone believes you're beautiful and they want to date you. EVERYONE.

But you're also shallow and self-serving. Maybe the 'cute' guys see this and move on to someone who is also pretty on the inside, and all the other 'ugly' men are just desperate to get the 'cute' girl that they're willing to try to forgive your vanity.

You should feel sad that you're classifying everyone as being ugly and not.

[talaniman]

Sad? That's disgusting coming from someone that cares so little for her own appearance and doesn't want to be judged, while judging others for what they cannot control.

Why are they ugly?

[natashap25]

Sad? That's disgusting coming from someone that cares so little for her own appearance and doesn't want to be judged, while judging others for what they cannot control.

Why are they ugly?

I'm not judging them,just saying that all the guys that like me are not that attractive.
My mum says because I'm ugly,so only ugly guys are attracted to me.
But I've been told I'm pretty

Everyone believes you're beautiful and they want to date you. EVERYONE.

But you're also shallow and self-serving. Maybe the 'cute' guys see this and move on to someone who is also pretty on the inside, and all the other 'ugly' men are just desperate to get the 'cute' girl that they're willing to try to forgive your vanity.

You should feel sad that you're classifying everyone as being ugly and not.

How am I being shallow by saying they are ugly.They have good personalities and everything but they are just not that attractive.

[Wondergirl]

So a guy has to be attractive before you will like him? Please look beyond appearances.

[CravenMorhead]

How am I being shallow by saying they are ugly.They have good personalities and everything but they are just not that attractive.

You can lead a horse to water...

Maybe the people who said that were pretty were just being nice, and the 'ugly' people now view you as being in their league, and all the 'pretty' boys don't want to go out with someone, being you, who is 'ugly'.

[Fr_Chuck]

First, if you are dating only on looks, no one is every happy.

If you will not consider dating someone "ugly" you are not worth dating anyway.

Go to Walmart, and watch, older couples, married couples, ugly guys, great girls, great guys, ugly girls, looks, in real life, are not the important issue.

Also it is how we present our self, how we dress, and how we interact with other people.

[Cat1864]

What are your definitions of 'attractive' and 'ugly'?

There is an old saying that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Perhaps you need to change how you view others.

I will let you in on a little secret. Attraction isn't only in looks but how the person makes you feel and how you respond to them on a personal level.

[smoothy]

I see it hypocritical that you think you are above them because you think you are more attractive... but not once did you mention anything about the quality of their character or their personality..

You are aware (well maybe not...you are too young to know this)... beauty fades... sometimes very, very quickly... and if they don't have a good character or good personality... what do you have? A Bitter former good looking person with a bad attitude and unpleasant personality.

Not everyone good looking has a good personality to match... nor does someone "ugly" have a bad personality to match.

I've come to notice... far more less attractive people have pleasing personalities... while far fewer of the "Beautiful" people do. Because those tend to think beauty is everything and they don't need anything else. Eventually find they lose that beauty and they don't HAVE anything else.

[joypulv]

I remember your previous posts as being unusually worrisome for an 18 year old young woman. You dwell on things that 12 and 13 year olds think. It's time to do some growing.

I had a nice enough face as a teen, but was insecure about the rest of me - small breasts, fat legs, etc. I decided I didn't particularly go for classic good looking guys. And now, decades later, I still have an affinity for those who don't attract bevies of women. Heck, I think they are the nicest too. The love of my life was sort of short and scrawny.

WHAT IS YOUR FUTURE? WHAT ARE YOUR PLANS FOR LIFE?

[Oliver2011]

Physical beauty fades with time. Inner beauty is generally forever. If you worked on your inner beauty I'm guessing guys would be lining up. Just a thought...