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    May 23, 2015, 04:33 PM
    Texting out of the blue
    So last year I treated a guy really badly *walked off when he approached etc,and its really bugging me,thing is we have never really actually spoken,is it weird if I text him saying I'm sorry, but its been over a year,and I don't know what to do exactly.
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    May 23, 2015, 05:31 PM
    Yes. It's weird. Leave it, and him, alone and move on.
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    May 23, 2015, 06:25 PM
    I think we have talked about this before, haven't we?

    Is this the same person? https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...im-808831.html

    I agree, leave him alone. Hopefully he has moved on with his life. Time for you to look forward instead of staring at the past.
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    May 23, 2015, 06:43 PM
    Recycling old problems is not a good idea.
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    May 24, 2015, 08:58 AM
    This guy has no doubt moved on. You should too.
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    May 25, 2015, 07:19 AM
    You weren't nice to him. He is going to be suspect of your motives. If that had happened to be I wouldn't give you the time of day. I would ignore the text thinking it was another ruse to mentally abuse me. You've made your intentions clear to him and he's not going to be easy to forgive.

    Stop. Leave the poor guy alone.
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    Jun 20, 2015, 02:42 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by CravenMorhead View Post
    You weren't nice to him. He is going to be suspect of your motives. If that had happened to be I wouldn't give you the time of day. I would ignore the text thinking it was another ruse to mentally abuse me. You've made your intentions clear to him and he's not going to be easy to forgive.

    Stop. Leave the poor guy alone.
    He hasn't moved on.Nothing has changed.The feelings are still there but he will not express them,I have seen him a lot this month and I feel like he still likes me.

    Quote Originally Posted by Cat1864 View Post
    I think we have talked about this before, haven't we?

    Is this the same person? https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...im-808831.html

    I agree, leave him alone. Hopefully he has moved on with his life. Time for you to look forward instead of staring at the past.
    He hasn't moved on.Nothing has changed.The feelings are still there but he will not express them,I have seen him a lot this month and Ifeel like he still likes me.

    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Recycling old problems is not a good idea.
    He hasn't moved on.Nothing has changed.The feelings are still there but he will not express them,I have seen him a lot this month and Ifeel like he still likes me.
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    Jun 20, 2015, 04:44 PM
    If he has not expressed is feelings it is because he has chosen not to. Leave him alone. It does not matter if you feel he still likes you.
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    Jun 21, 2015, 03:44 AM
    Sounds like you are going to do whatever you want anyway. Sometimes we are mean to nice people until we realize that the people we prefer are being mean to us, and suddenly the one waiting in the wings starts to look better.

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