[ANNICK36]

What sign should I look for to know if my botfriend wants out?

[J_9]

Can you give us more details? We don't know anything about your situation, we don't know you or your boyfriend. So it is virtually impossible to give you any semblance of advice based on the question you asked so far.

[J_9]

Ok well saturday night we went out and 1 of our friend was with us and i am close to her and so is he, he told her in front of me that he was checking her !!! i have never seen this behavior in him and i was just wondering if that was a sign of him wanting out of this relationship. i think its totally disrespectful to me. what do you think? he was drunk but still!!!

I have copied and pasted your PM to me so that the proper relationship experts can help you appropriately. Although I do respond in the relationship board, we have some very well qualified experts who may be able to help you better than me.

[AKaeTrue]

Sounds like he was flurting...
It could have been innocent, but your right, it was very disrespectful.
Have you talked to him and your friend about how the comment made you feel?
How does he act toward you at other times?

[ANNICK36]

He's wonderful very loving , attentif and caring. I just don't know what to think of that! I haven't told him how I feel yet, I plan on doing so but I don't want to attack him with it so I'm thinking of a way to be gentle and tell him.

Thank you

[talaniman]

hes wonderful very loving , attentif and caring. i just dont know what to think of that!! i havent told him how i feel yet, i plan on doing so but i dont want to attack him with it so im thinking of a way to be gentle and tell him.

thank you

You have the right approach as talking to him will end assumptions and speculations.

[J_9]

Originally Posted by ANNICK36
he was drunk but still!!!

Yes, you have every right to ask him about it, but I am guessing it was the alcohol that was talking.

[ANNICK36]

Thank you for your answers! Do you have any advice on how I should approach this matter??