It sounds like you both need to have a really good talk with one another and set some rules as to what you both want and where you are both moving forwards to, being together or being apart !
First of all the SEX has happened now so there is nothing you can do regards that, but you need to put yourself in control and stop anything like this from happening again until you know if your together or not, and don't let yourself be played and used for sex just when the other person wants it, as this can lead to all kinds of problems for yourself in relationships, present and looking ahead to others to come.
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