[Nisha Solanki]

HELLO EVERYONE,
Brother! I have a brother of 24 years. He has a job and he works very hard. He used to be very honest, funny and lovely with me. It is about 5-6 months before. But now he is in his own world. He has separated his world from me. As he works so we do not get much time to stay together and talk. But still on some weekends we go for movies and talk. The talk seems good.

I am 16 and he blames me. He thinks that I am growing up. And yeah its true that I am growing up. He says that I am not that cool like I was when I was a kid. He says that I became girlish. But frankly I have not but due to lack of talking he is misunderstood.
MY QUESTION IS THAT HOW SHOULD I MAKE THAT RELATION WITH MY BROTHER AGAIN?
MAY BE IT SOUNDS STRANGE BUT I LOVE MY BRO VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY... MUCH!

My another question is that he is 24, till now Won't he be having any girlfriend. Sometimes I find his reactions strange related to it. His surroundings are all adult and they all have girlfriends and all. So I think he has girlfriend but just he is not telling me. (HE WAS CLOSE TO ME ONLY HE IS NOT THAT FRANK WITH MOM, DAD OR MY SIS!)
THANKS FOR READING IT! BLESS YOU

[talaniman]

RELAX, there is nothing to do, or fret about, as you both are changing NATURALLY as you both have grown up a bit. The key is understanding this transition you are both going through, and be calm and patient as you deal with yourselves, and each other.

EVERYBODY goes through these stages in life.

[Precious7]

I agree with tal! But would like to add that, now you just have to understand the transition in both of your life and respect it and within that circle you maintain your friendship and love with your bro, frankly speaking everything changes, so here the more important thing is this that no matter how far you live, how far you go, how often you speak or see each other, but the main essence of the relationship, love, respect, care etc. should always have to be there!