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prakash2manie · Jul 10, 2014, 09:59 PM

Hi friends,
Am prakash frm madurai,am loving a girl sincerely I think she too,due to lak of my moms health,my parents planned me to get marry but I said that am in love,due to caste differ they reject,but I can't forget her,being frank I know everything about her,I can't forget her,even every second I remind her,I need to get convince my parents,get me d counseling... I said to her all followed situations but she said,after 2 years only her parents ll permit to get marry her age is 24 mine is 29...

I love her lot.. but by the same time I can't let my parents alone.. by the same I can't leave her too... without her I can't stay in this world... planned to end my life in short days... if ma parents won't allow... Pls get me some... word to convince parents

Tanx friends

Fr_Chuck · Jul 11, 2014, 12:47 AM

Not possible, the word, would be, "parents I will marry her without your permission"

You tell them what you are going to do... and they may either accept it, or not..

derwon25 · Jul 11, 2014, 02:54 AM

Tell them that either you will marry her or won't get married only... lost interest in marriage or any other girl etc etc.. Then wait for some days to see the results... in mean while the girl will get the time she needs as u told... also your parents heart might melt.
Secondly marriage is a big deal, if you marry any other girl there are certain risks involved. You might fall in love with that in the due course of time or might be the more the time will pass the more you will feel trapped. Anything can happen, might be you get into extra marital affair or whatever, please don't take it personally but I have seen it happen. Now the bottom line is don't get married just for your parents sake until you yourself are fully cinvinced to do that cause in the end its your life and, enjoying or suffering that will cine by your spouse will be born by you only in the long run as its you who is going to tie the knot and not your parents.
One more thing right now you are sounding a bit anxious si I will suggest calm down and let the matter rest for sometime then only take any decision.