[M1531]

My girlfriend had her periods on the 9th of April. On 32nd day of her cycle i.e. 10th of May we got a bit intimate. She had worn her panty and jeans. But I had taken my penis out and was shaking it. I didn't ejaculate but precum was there. I did hug her that way but she had her jeans worn. My penis did touch near her vaginal area but she had her jeans worn. Is it possible to get pregnant that way..? She is now on 47th day of her cycle but her periods are nowhere to be seen. Is she pregnant..? Help please..! Or she might have skipped a period..?

[DoulaLC]

Hi M1531,

No, she would not get pregnant from what you describe. Does she have irregular cycles?

Best to avoid getting intimate until you both are ready for the possibility of things going further than you plan and the potential for an unplanned pregnancy. The easiest thing is to not even put yourselves in that type of situation... then you don't have to worry about going too far or a possible pregnancy.

[M1531]

Irregular in the sense, she has had a maximum 40 or a 41 day cycle. She does tend to have between 30-38 days but not a sure length. By what I described she had worn her jeans and I might have touched on the outside. So it isn't possible to get pregnant that way..?

[DoulaLC]

No, she can not get pregnant from you touching the outside of her jeans with your penis. It is likely just an off cycle... which can happen. She can always try a pregnancy test.

[J_9]

No, as Doula said, she cannot get pregnant this way.

[talaniman]

My gosh man, if neither of you knows anything about sex, and how babies are made why don't you find out before you play these silly games. Keep your cloths on, and make sure she does too, because I doubt she is pregnant, but one thing can lead to another, and you already are whipping yours out and that's half the process already.

No telling what you have done before out of blind ignorance. No excuse for you to be as unknowing as her about how the bodies work. How old are you both and what how have you been intimate before?

[M1531]

I agree with you all. In that moment maybe we took a wrong step. Will be careful again always. Hope she gets her periods soon. And are there any kind of small chances of being pregnant the way I mentioned..?

[J_9]

It is impossible to get pregnant this way. Stop worrying.

[M1531]

Thanks all for your help. I may post again if am worried again. Thanks..!

[M1531]

Peopllee..! Helppp..! There is some brown blood on her panty..! What can it be..? She's scared alottt..!

[DoulaLC]

Peopllee..! Helppp..! There is some brown blood on her panty..! What can it be..? She's scared alottt..!

It could be the start of her period. For some women, a period may start, and/or end, with brownish discharge sometimes. Have her see what happens over the next few days.

[M1531]

Even I feel so but then there's nothing at present..! I hope its her start of period..! Sure no pregnancy scare na..?

[DoulaLC]

Have you been intimate again since 10th of May? Did more actually happen on the 10th of May than what you described before? If no to either of those, than she can not be pregnant.

[M1531]

No we haven't even met after 10th May..! Ya that's all what had happened on 10th May..! I didn't even ejaculate but had precum but she had worn her pants..! My penis may have touched on the outside but she had her pants..!

Also since 5-6 days she's experiencing some pain on her left side of abdomen..! I have read it happens as the uterus tries to expand itself..! I don't know how it is possible that she will get pregnant withoud us having sex and also one person being clothed..!

[DoulaLC]

She can not get pregnant with you simply touching your penis to the outside of her jeans. If the brown discharge is slight, it may be due to ovulation. Again, it may be a period about to start. Since she has had irregular cycles before, it may be due to a hormone imbalance. She may have developed an ovarian cyst. There are a number of possible reasons for it.

If she continues to have unexplained pain and discharge, she should see her doctor.

[M1531]

Yaa the brown discharge was slight maybe 5-6 drops not more..! I hope for her periods to come now..! Just hoping..! Please pray..! I will ask again thank you..! :) thanks for helping

[Precious7]

May be that's her period! She can't get pregnant by the way u described because- " she had her Jeans worn" remember? ;)

[M1531]

Yaa she had her jeans worn..! But there is no blood now..! So it isn't her period maybe..!

[Precious7]

Ok! Do 2 things, 1st if you both are freaking out now then its better take a pregnancy test after two week, you'll know and believe in that result,(u said she has irregular period, brown discharge can be result of that, as others have stated,)! And 2nd is Don't ever again do unprotected sex!

[M1531]

We haven't have had sex..! Yaa its been 4 weeks since we did that..! Taking a test this Monday to know..!