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yodo1089 · May 16, 2014, 04:09 PM

Hi, so this guy had a hudge crush on me for a super long time, but I had no interres. But ever since he stopted
Liking me, I just fell in love with him but he is over me. But, one of his friends told me he still has feelings for me but I don't know if I should believe him. I don't know what to do but last year we where in the same class and this year we are not but he will be in my class next year so do you think he would fall in love with me again next year? I think its because we wert in the same class so he could fall in love with me but what if he doesn't.
What do I do he's all I think about (he quit liking me when we changed class)
Please help

J_9 · May 16, 2014, 04:15 PM

How old are the two of you?

odinn7 · May 16, 2014, 04:17 PM

Sounds like you are too young to be talking about falling in love....

But this is what happens...you played the game...you weren't interested and now that he's not, now you want him. Childish stuff.

smoothy · May 16, 2014, 04:37 PM

Give up on it... focus on your classes. You can't make anyone like you... and its clear he doesn't any more.

ScottGem · May 16, 2014, 04:41 PM

As I recall you are 11. You are too young for this.

J_9 · May 16, 2014, 04:48 PM

Originally Posted by ScottGem

As I recall you are 11. You are too young for this.

. Oh, yeah, now I remember!

You are too young to be playing these games. Wait until you are at least 16.

yodo1089 · May 17, 2014, 06:46 AM

[Did I ask what age should I be? NO! I'm not to young love is anny age so give me a answer

ScottGem · May 17, 2014, 06:51 AM

Where do you get the idea that love is any age? Its an immature notion. The younger you are, the less you can understand what love really is. The media has made romantic relationships so attractive that younger people want to emulate adult behaviors before they are truly ready. That's the position you are in. At 11 you are too young to engage in romantic relationships. At 12 and 13 you can start hanging in with boys in groups. At 14 you can start dating one on one. Assuming, of course, that your parents allow it.

That's the only answer you will get here.

talaniman · May 17, 2014, 07:32 AM

You can't get him back because you never had him. That's what everyone has tried to tell you and if you try tricks to attract him you will look and feel like a complete fool. You may have these intense feelings for someone, but you obviously don't know what to do about them, or that you cannot control the feelings of others. That's what you are trying to do, and that never works, and nobody wants you to look like a complete boy crazy fool.

I know it sucks to not be able to share your feelings with the one you have feelings for, and hurts, but that's what having feelings is about, learning to deal with them, maturely, without making a fool of yourself. None of us wants that because that will hurt you worse than dealing with the fact that sometimes you can love intensely, but the one you loves DOESN'T feel the same.

That's just life, we can't always get what we want just because we want it, and we cannot control how others feel about us.