[kanza wahaj]

I was in a relationship with a boy when I was 17 and then broke up because he hugged me and kissed me. Now he is teasing me and he is creating disturbance in my married life. I am now worried my husband don't trust me as I never told him about the past and now he always use it to drive divorce to me. Me and my husband love each other but that my ex boyfriend use to text such cheap messages that the love and respect which I had in the eyes of my husband is decreasing and he remains angry on me now we are living separately due to some reason. He says that my wife is not pak and I don't want a wife who has been touched in her past. :( Help me plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

[Fr_Chuck]

Obviously this is not American culture, since a girl may have many boyfriends, and merely hug and kissing is common and not an issue of any type.

Why is this man saying these things, why does he wish to harm you. Has your family spoken to his family about this, and ask him to stop.

You and your husband need to discuss this with a elder, that you both respect to try and work things out.

[Jake2008]

I don't care what culture you are from, no woman deserves to be judged by a past, with that past having no significant importance.

Your husband is a jerk.

If there is any way you can get out of this relationship, would you?

[talaniman]

Block the ex from any contact whatsoever, and find a trusted elder to talk sense to your husband who doesn't sound very rational, forgiving, loving, or understanding to me.

Sorry you married such a moron, and hope he grows up soon. He definitely needs an older male to smack him upside his head and explain manhood.