[Tucker16]

I was with my ex for almost two years, we bought a house together and I co-signed a car for her. Things were going great until she didn't want me to go see my family without her. She felt she wasn't being accepted as I was with her family. In my eyes it wasn't big deal she was always welcomed to come along. I guess she was looking for a personal invitation or something. Anyway her parents moved in with us and their dog and brother... I told her I am going to stay with my mom and brother for a month... just because things weren't going too well between us and for religious month. She got upset threw me out in front of her family and insulted me and my family. I never wanted to break-up just that I wanted space. She then calls me a almost week later and breaks up with me. Over the phone. Six months have passed now and my name is still attached to the home, car and furniture. I did hire legal counsel to remove my name but then I just left it as is... maybe thinking she will want to resolve our differences and get back together. We really don't talk anymore and she refuses to see me when we do. She did call me for my b-day, but I never called her for hers. My mind wants me to move on but my heart can't let me go. I never chase woman but I tried to get back with her but she said she has moved on. Something inside tells me she is lying. Any advice would be greatly appreciated thanks.

[talaniman]

First off handle your business and get your finances straight. Then leave her alone and put your life back together. I suspect she was looking for an excuse to move you out anyway.

[chuff]

You have to get your name and responsibilities off the house and car sooner than later.

Secondly, it sounds like she was using you from the beginning to get her way and her hands on your financial security which she doesn't sound like she has. I think someday your going to be happy you didn't get taken for more then you already did.