What's up with this girl?
I met a new girl at school a couple months ago, and we get along great. We have a lot in common, and we always have great conversations when we hang out. I always enjoy being around her, and I think I like her quite a bit. There have also been many signs she likes me as well. I've seen her stare at me and smile several times when she thinks I don't notice, only to look away and blush when turn to her. She's told me many things about her personal life, and has been eager to ask about mine several times before (ie. What kind of girls I'm interested in, am I dating now, etc.). Plus, there are a lot of little things she does that suggests she's interested: For example, I missed a call from her once, and when I got back to her, she went on for well over a minute about how my voicemail message was hilarious, and inspired her to change her own (everyone else I asked says mine sounds like a normal, boring voicemail).
I could go on much longer, but to be clear, she's giving off all sorts of signs that she likes me. The problem is, all we usually do when we hang out is go for a walk around campus, chat over coffee, or stuff like that. Whenever I suggest anything more (such a movie or having lunch sometime), she acts interested, but hesitates, and either tells me she'll be busy, or else puts off giving me an answer (saying things like "I don't know") until it's too late.
I've had girls give me flimsy excuses before, and I know it usually means they're not interested. However, this girl continues giving me the same signals, despite the excuses. Is she interested, and just being shy and indecisive? Or could she have a reason to act interested even if she really isn't (it doesn't feel as though she just wants attention - she knows plenty of other guys, and doesn't focus on them nearly as much as me). What could be going on? How do I approach her to ask without making it awkward?
(By the way, this has nothing to with the girl I asked about in a previous question, before anyone asks.)
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