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    afrahsohail Posts: 35, Reputation: 3
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    Feb 22, 2014, 03:57 AM
    I happy now... I don't visit his page that often. I have people who really loves me and care I spend my time with them. Thank you everyone.I love you all who helped me to cross that scary time when I was weak I neva contacted him its been more than 20 days now :). And yes bleeding has stopped I am all fine now,just excited about my life ahead. I am thankful to this site it helped me heal and relax.
    Loads of love ♥
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    Feb 22, 2014, 05:13 AM
    And you are helping others here too. So thank you too.
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    Feb 22, 2014, 01:35 PM
    Oh my God joypuly are you there? He is calling I rejected and now he had called almost 8 times I have been rejecting.finally after 19 days he is trying to contact on my another number.I wrote a text telling him that I have got over him but I didnnot send it thought to ask you 1st.I think I shouldnot give his call any value right? Seriously I donnot want to hear his voice even.No more drama or lies.

    I am literally shocked and laughing that I have tortured him and he is desperatly calling me . He wants to talk but I won't give him that pleasure by talking to him I think I am doing the right thing? I have always been there for him for last 2 years helped him with his illness his problems and everything may be he needs me to discuss his problems and be happy and relax

    Joypulv I think I should ignore him and stay away from the crap.
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    Feb 22, 2014, 01:46 PM
    He hasn't earned the right to call you. He never should have called you in the first place, and you never should have answered the phone. Don't start now that you've gotten rid of him and are trying to move on with your life.

    No contact. That means no texting, no calling, no fb, no looking up what he's doing, just move on and forget him completely. If you can't do it on your own, change phone numbers and make sure he doesn't have the number, delete him and block him on fb and any other social media sites. Take temptation out of your path.
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    #25

    Feb 22, 2014, 01:59 PM
    Why would you even want to go there again ? Just heal mentally and physically. What good will it do you. He is married, he is a creep for doing this to you. Think of him as the lowest life form you know !
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    Feb 22, 2014, 02:03 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by tickle View Post
    Why would you even want to go there again ? Just heal mentally and physically. What good will it do you. He is married, he is a creep for doing this to you. Think of him as the lowest life form you know !
    I'd add that the OP is not innocent in this. Like I said before, the only real victims in all of this is are the guys wife, and the unborn child of the OP. Both the OP and the married man chose to do this. They're both equally responsible and equally at fault.

    She should do now what she should have done from the very beginning. Ignore him.
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    Feb 22, 2014, 02:26 PM
    Ok thank you guys. ♥
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    Feb 24, 2014, 05:23 AM
    I thought OP had a 'termination'?

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