There's nothing wrong with masturbating twice a day, but any lack of loving between two people needs to be talked about with each other. Plan a time when you can talk to him about what you are missing (warmth of touch, stroking, and actual intercourse) in a calm way, and ask if there is anything going on in his life that is having an effect on his feelings. Don't complain or accuse, which isn't always easy, so think carefully about how you are going to say this in a nice way.
There are many reasons men lose interest in sex with their wives. Here are a few.
The number one reason is worry over work and money, and a feeling that the spouse is lacking in understanding.
Others in no particular order are such things as once a woman has children, she isn't seen as a sexual person by her husband. A wife becomes more like his mother. He has low testosterone. He is homosexual. He is having an affair. He is seeing prostitutes. He prefers masturbating, often to porn on the internet.
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