[jimwalsh]

OK so here's the story, me and my ex girlfriend have been broken up for about a mont after a 5 month relationship. After the break up she said she never wants anything to do with me so what I do I call, and call, and call and all that does is drive her away, after this she says she wants even less to do with me so I just leaver her alone and cut off all contact with her whatsoever. And yesterday (march 31st) she tells me she wants to be "good" but she does not want to hang out. What my questios are how do I get her to want to hang out with me, and do I still have a chance to get back together with her? If so how

Thanks, jim

[Zeus2007]

Run, don't even thinkk about it. You have a chance but only if yo say to her You want to be with her amd you can't be "good" cause she is in the driver seat and it's not 50/50 which is the only way it can work.

[Jiser]

Its time to accept the harsh truth and start the transition to single life. Its hard but whatever doesn't kill us makes us stronger right? ;) More wary in the future and aware what we are looking for in a relationship and a person.

Treat your relationship as a life experience, you might not be able to treasure the memories you had right now but one day you will. Do not regret but learn and move on, as someone much better is just around the next corner.

You must try follow these: (be strong)

1) Abide by no contact, ignorance is bliss so don't go near the 'grape vine'
2) Work on yourself entirely - hobbies, work, gym
3) Ever wanted to do something in your life? Nows the time :)
4) Spend more time with your friends and family and rewnew old social ties
5) Box every memory away and stay away from your fav songs for now - when you can look at it without feeling ill - Ur halfway there!
6) Time does heal :P It just takes a god dam while, but don't mope at home, go out, party, exercise - helps a hell of a lot
7) Music helps

[Skell]

No you don't have a chance to get back together with her and there is no way of getting anyone to want to hang out with you. And why would you want to try and force someone to hang out with you anyway. Wouldn't you prefer to hang with someone who wants to be there?

Forget her and move on.

[talaniman]

Forget it and move on by leaving her alone and going back to enjoying your life without her. Don't waste time trying to figure out how to get her back, that's her choice to make.