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    Dec 5, 2013, 02:38 PM
    I'm confused please someone help
    Hi... I just wanted to ask if I might have a possibility to be pregnant and I'm kind of worried since I am nt that familiar with the procedure... on Monday the 25th I had sex with my boyfriend for the 1st time... it was unprotected but he didn't inside... on Friday the 29th we had sex but protected... I got my period on the 3rd of December it lasted 2 days maximum... I feel so tired and my back hurts a lot... and I have this urge to eat a lot... I am actually worried to ask my mom to take me to the dr cz my dad is kind of closed minded and would seriously kill me if he knws... any advice? Please and thank u... by the way I'm 21 so I'm nt underage
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    Dec 5, 2013, 02:46 PM
    You are 21 and not familiar with the procedure? ANY time there is penile insertion there is the risk of pregnancy. However, your period occurs because no fertilized egg implanted in the uterine wall so the uterine wall was flushed out.

    So if you got your period you aren't pregnant.

    And I would suggest that before you have sex again, that you make yourself familiar with the procedure.
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    Dec 5, 2013, 02:50 PM
    I know the procedure I just mean that I am nt a professional in that sector... and yes I am 21 what is so shocking about that? I live in a VERY traditional and closed minded society . Thank you for your advice I appreciate that.
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    Dec 5, 2013, 02:55 PM
    One does not have to be a medical professional to understand the reproductive process.

    And I find it criminal that societies exist that are so closeminded as to confuse young woman about the process.
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    Dec 5, 2013, 02:57 PM
    It is criminal yet several of us have found a way to get the information that we are capable of getting... but I don't several stuff that is why I asked for advice hoping that someone can actually help me out... thank you a lot I really appreciate that you answered
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    Dec 6, 2013, 05:25 AM
    Let me offer an apology. I forget sometimes that this is an international site and that we do have members who don't live in a western culture. I apologize if you found my responses condescending or insulting. They weren't really aimed at you, but at the sorry state of sex education in many areas, including some in the west.
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