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    Nov 22, 2013, 11:21 AM
    Is it normal not to feel sex?
    I'm female, 22 years and I can't feel anything to do with that. Masturbation is useless and I can't feel much of anything in sex areas. Apparently I have orgasm during sex but I can't feel any of it. It sucks big time. Is it normal? Or even possible without their being some kind of damage?
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    Nov 22, 2013, 03:55 PM
    It isn't unusual for women not to climax during the physical act of sex, but it unusual to not feel anything. When you say that do you mean nothing? Ie, if you take a Dildo you won't feel it penetrating you? Or is it that you don't feel pleasure? Have you played with Toys? When you have sex are you turned on? Truthfully?

    It is completely plausible that you're not wired to feel pleasure during sex, that would suck, but it could also be that you've not really explored things right or thoroughly. It is unlikely that you're not wired for pleasure.
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    Nov 23, 2013, 06:15 AM
    You should be able to "feel" and find pleasure if you are masturbating. You experiment on what feels good. Do you have any moral or other issues with pleasure in sex ?

    With a partner, can be different with less feelings
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