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    mrtnz91 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 28, 2013, 09:51 AM
    Why am I not feeling any pleasure when I have sex with my boyfriend
    I'm 22 years old and my BF is 25 I was a virgin but not anymore thanks to him. we've had sex more than 4 times but I still don't feel any pleasure at all! I have to fake it and I'm getting tired of doing so:( last night was the first time he gave me oral but still I felt nothing! he's played with me as well with his fingers but AGAIN nothing. is there something wrong with me? he turns me on and arouses me a lot and I care deeply about him he makes me super happy but when the sex comes I feel nothing! please help!
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    miketctlane Posts: 37, Reputation: 2
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    Oct 28, 2013, 10:53 AM
    (This might be harsh) I would say that he does not know how to sex right. I recommend that he watch porn and does everything he sees in that video and for you to relax.
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    CravenMorhead Posts: 4,532, Reputation: 1065
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    Oct 28, 2013, 12:39 PM
    For the love of fluffy don't expect him to be a good lover because he watched porn. We'd all be casanovas if that were true.

    How much have you explored yourself? How much do you play with yourself? Get to know your body so you can teach him to pleasure you. Get a vibrator and maybe a dildo and have some fun.

    This could be a sign that you're not really turned on and your mind isn't really there. Are you using birthcontrol? Do you have worries or concerns that could be playing about your mind while you're making love?

    Have you had a check up? Talk to your oby about this during your next visit.

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