[Hoorzan]

I,21 years old, was in relation with a guy.we had a great time for 4 months but then he left me as his mother was not happy with this relation. I suffered a lot and then recovered a little after 3 months. But then he again came to me said me sorry and I started talking to him. But after a month I came to know that he got engaged to a girl, when I asked him he said that yes his mother forced him and then he again left me for that girl. Now after 2 months he again came and said that this time he'll make his mother agree with our relation and he broke up with his fiancée as their family was not good... I love him a lot and so I again trusted on him... we got patch up again... but now since last 2 days he is not talking to me and said his mother is not getting agreed... now I am very much tensed... feeling like to die..
Please suggest me what should I do... I am missing him a lot..
When he has to leave me then why he again asked me for patch up he should have asked his parents before talking to me.

[Michlania]

I would say either chose me or your mom and his choice shall let you know his feelings

[joypulv]

If you live in a part of the world where marriages are arranged or at least very controlled, you need to get the truth from him about his family. He may just want to be obedient to their wishes out of respect, or he may be dependent on them financially, or they may be threatening to disown him, or a combination of all of those. He isn't telling you enough! Stop seeing him in any romantic way until he is fully truthful.

[mmresd]

If he has to be faithful to his mother and his acquired relationship then you should just leave, find someone who is available for you, unless you want to continue torturing yourself.