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    nndtshrm92 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 16, 2013, 09:30 AM
    How do I know that she loves me or not
    Hi I am in love with a girl who is already in a relationship. Also the girl enjoys my company and even she allows me to touch her body though not physical. She once said to me that she doesn't have enough strong feelings for her boyfriend and can come to my life but after she meet her boyfriend after a long time she changed her views. But gradually again she started liking my company and even we watched a movie together holding her hands but after few days we had a quarrel and in spite of me asking sorry several times to her she said she wants to cut off everything with me as she can't cheat her boyfriend at any cost and also her marriage is fixed with him.

    Though I am not sure that whatever she said about her marriage is true or not, now she has planned to stay with her boyfriend for few days in his aunts house. What should I do? I really love her, how could I know what's in her heart about me?
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    odinn7 Posts: 7,691, Reputation: 1547
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    Oct 16, 2013, 09:52 AM
    It makes no difference... there is nothing you can do and it doesn't matter "what's in her heart"... She is with someone else and she obviously cares about him. It's time for you to start acting like a mature adult and to back off and let them have their life.

    If she really wanted you and was able to be with you, she would be already... she's not so stop playing games and find someone who isn't already attached.
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    Oct 16, 2013, 04:35 PM
    My advise would be to cut your contact. Go out and get a great life away from her. Make sure she knows this through Facebook for example. When your have a great time and life invite her out as a friend.

    I had a similar issue once with a girl who was my friend who I felt more for. I sat there for a year dating others whilst she dated an idiot. We eventually hit it off for a few months, had a whirlwind romance and great holidays away together. Unfortunately it ended due to differences we couldn't work out.

    My point is get a life away from her and have fun. Don't give up hope but don't put all your eggs in one basket!
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Oct 16, 2013, 06:52 PM
    Dude just take her word for it and see her trip with the boyfriend as a very strong hint you have given your heart to the wrong person and your love will bear no fruit.

    Leave her alone for YOUR own good. That's what you should do. What did you expect from a female that had somebody already?

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